hi all, i am a new comer to IL.Recently i came to know that my younger brother's wife is pregnant for the first time. i just want to know what r the procedures to be followed by us during the seemantham and after the birth of the child.i am a TAMIL BRAHMIN-IYER. As i am the eldest i want to fulfill all the duties to be done and especially i wnt to make my brother and my sis-in-law happy. please advice.