Hi all I have an ok relation with my mother. Actually when we were small .( we are two sis and bro). My athai who is handicapped used to take care of us. My parents were working. So actually speaking they were hardly there for us. My aunt used to cook things for us , stealthy send our servant to buy things which we lke to eat from out .. In all was like a mother to us . .. My mother used to only teach us and may be take us out .. Infact I think she was compensating her lack of time with us by buying us things, chocolates etc.. Material things but I don't remember her having showered us with love.. She was busy with work even if she had time she spend in kitty party etc.. I mean literally speaking she was hardly there for us physically and emotionally .. Most importantly that motherly love was missing . Her needs were above us .. Time passed by my parents got all of us married. She left her job after my sis marriage since my father would not keep well .. Now after our marriage she is suddenly expecting all of us to devotetime and share things with her . In short be close with her.. Which is not the case with me.. Suddenly overnight , we have never had a close relation . But that is not the issue. how can I suddenly be close when I have never had such a relation My bro got married and my bhabi realized that we sis have no say in our house and she took advantage of the situation and started establishing a close relation with my mom . Now my mom believes, trust her more than us . So much so she is like her daughter now and we are just like guest. My bhabi started even talking I'll about us nd my athai who took care if us and my mother would not bother she believes every thing about whatever she says initially my bhabi used to stay along with my mom ( that time she would complain about my moms nature to us) now she is staying away from them due to my bro job and still maintains a close relation with mom ... My mother too started taking info about my family like my inlaws, kids etc and share nothing about my bros family.. Insense my mom started sharing info with my bhabi telling what xyz is going on at my place or my sis place but tell us nothing about my bro house. This time I c,dnt wish my bro daughter on her b'day since my phone was not working and last yr I forgot. My bhabi made a mountain of this issue and complained to my mom now she is too making a issue of this. I smsed my bro for the delay but still. I am staying abroad and once in a while I talk to my bro and bhabi but as a elder bro my bro never calls me. If there is anything related to my brother and bhabis family and I forget to do I get good scolding from my mom saying you are not being good with bhabi etc.. I had to tell this background ..since the issue now is what should I do . My relation with mom was already okie doie now I have totally lost the little bit love I had. I am now just like fulfilling my duty if any as a daughter but I have become totally heartless . Is it wrong.. I have stopped sharing any info about my family just tell her things r ok even if there are ne problems.How to tackle my bhabi? My brother too behaves strangely and trust his wife.