help!!! I had my second kid in July 2016. Via c section. I had been begging for a tubal ligation along with the c section but my husband started joking with the nurse that don’t I need another kid and so the surgeon said they need both parents conscent before going ahead with it. So I did not get it done. Then after arguing a lot I got him to get a vasectomy in dec 2018. He did not go for a follow uP to check sperm count. Problem now is I got my period on sepT 23, had *** on October 1. And now I am already having nausea. I’m afraid I might be pregnant!! If I am pregnant what is the best course of action to terminate it? If I’m not pregnant I will give a million thanks to god. But how do I avoid a surprise in the future. I could get mirena but that is not permanent. Doctor said since I had lots of scarring I cannot go through any more surgeries. How do I prevent another pregnancy 100%.?????????