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Positives of your MILs

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by SGBV, Apr 23, 2015.

  1. pinky2cute

    pinky2cute Platinum IL'ite

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    Well... mil is a typical indian mil...obsessed with her son.... and ofcourse her daughter (who luckily stays in US so not a big issue).
    She wants her son always to dance at her tunes and she wants to be the boss of the home...
    Oh wait... this post is abt positives na.... hmmm very tough to think positive abt the one who made my life hell....
    Ok let me try....

    Hmmm....

    Yeah...she is an okay cook...though unclean and unhygenic at that!

    Hmmm....

    Yeah thats about it!
     
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    MonikaSG Platinum IL'ite

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    Too difficult to say positive. We all can write book on negative. But merely one or two lines will come up positive even after thinking a lot about it. I never knew that I too can hate someone this much.
     
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    She gave birth to my husband
     
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    MonikaSG Platinum IL'ite

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    To be positive one has to think positive. I want to be positive about my mil. So thinking positive about her.
    She made me to do lots of work for which I feel bad but that made me much better in handling many tasks.
    She take care of my kids
    She take care of her son which helps me in doing the care of my husband.
    Many times she makes food although just by her own will but I get so much relaxed during that time.
    Even if I don't like she always give suggestion that many times help me a lot.

    She is the one very nice lady whom I met because of my husband.

    Feeling good now. Now I may be able to respect her more. If not then will come back again and write her positives.
     
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    nakshatra1 Platinum IL'ite

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    She has raised my husband to be a good man. He has a golden heart.I love him very much and I am so lucky he is the way he is.
     
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    She too is doing a lot to adjust with me. I appreciate her efforts. I also react wrongly many times.
     
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    Interesting replies , some hilarious !

    Mine has a good choice and collection of sarees / jewelry . Cooks really well and has made my favorite food when visiting us, which I really appreciate . Has hobbies including sports and does not seem to gossip too much or indulge in negativity , which I really respect her for.
     
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    Archanaanchan IL Hall of Fame

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    For a moment I was wondering if it was 'Positive of Mother ? or Mil ? :fearscream:'

    Mil's mostly have been negative shades for many :joycat: I have spent only little time with my MiL , as we started to live separate within few months of our marriage . It needs time and staying together to define certain things , but as long as I have stayed with my MIL .. All was well !!

    Few things that I have appreciated in my MIL
    -She is a very independent. ( Depends on fil/others for very few things ).
    - Indefinitely a good cook .
    - Friendly and outgoing , She makes friends easily .
    -She is very outspoken who speaks straight from the shoulder
    - I have totally loved the way she runs the household and manages every small thing .
    - I love her activeness for her age .

    My husband was on business trip a week after our marriage and I had to stay with my IL's for few months. My Mil made my stay in the new house very comfortable , cooked good food for me, never demanded / uttered something that would hurt me . She taught me a lot with cooking , running the household and shared a lot of her experience . I spent those days very happily with her and never missed my parents much.

    Until now , no major complaints :mask: :).
     
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    A few about my MIL
    She is very hardworking and independent by nature
    She is least bothered about her appearance and can walk around with out footwear and in used/old clothes if need be
    She hardly needs any materialistic things to keep her happy
     

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