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Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by poorwife, Dec 16, 2011.

  1. poorwife

    poorwife New IL'ite

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    i have been posting in this forum for long. i just donot know how to come out of mess. me and my husband are on the verge of divorce , my husband always keep on complaining about my parents about me i am always on receiving end, this time my family said very bad things about me, i feel i am so bad and i am harrasing everyone , i have no confidence in myself , i just feel i am bad person and i should not be alive anymore, i donot know what to d just fed up , cant think f anything , i have nobody around me with whm i can share my problems just alone .............
     
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    ivlakshmi Platinum IL'ite

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    stop bearing and start scolding them
     
  3. amunique

    amunique Gold IL'ite

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    Dear,
    Why do u think ur bad?.. what makes u think so? ...go indulge in some hobby or anything that makes u feel good about urself... start doing things that u love to or know how to.. may be gardening, painting etc etc... YOU leave the rest of ppl around u alone for sometime... be in ur own world... try to kick off negative thoughts immediately as they strike you.. go spiritual...

    and abt ur husband... let him say whatever he feels/thinks... y do u bother?? by lending an ear.. u only accept those things as facts... just try ignoring and see the change....

    and you are not alone here.... once u r here in IL ur with us, amongst us... so dont ever feel lonely...anymore...

    if u need a companion for sharing ur thoughts... write in here... we r here... m here ;) ok?? nw cheer up.... there is nothing serious....... in life....
     
  4. RJMK

    RJMK Silver IL'ite

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    Hey come On..You are not alone.We are all here.
    You know after my delivery this happened with me.The entire world was scolding me and throwing tantrums at me.I was so lonely..But I managed to get pass that.Even you will.I am very sure.
     
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    orion80 Platinum IL'ite

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    I have read your previous threads and i am surprised seeing your level of patience. They keep harrassing you and they are so insensitive. Why are you struggling so much to keep this relationship alive? Are you afraid of divorce or living alone?

    You are a financially independent woman who can take care of herself. Show them that you can live on your own and can live a happy life. I would suggest, start consolidating your finances and look out for a place of your own. Once you find it, move out and live peacefully for few days. The threats of divorce and all the harrassment would mean much less once you start living alone.

    To be very frank, your husband doesnt deserve you.
     

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