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Please help - My brother is gay

Discussion in 'Parents & Siblings' started by needhelp2010, Sep 29, 2010.

  1. Tanujam30

    Tanujam30 Silver IL'ite

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    How can the OP decide mom/bro to change? Does she have any harry potter style spell to change people? These people who need 'changing' aparently have no say in how they want to be or feel :crazy

    :rotfl:biglaugh:rotfl:biglaughThank you for the laugh.
     
  2. Spiderman1

    Spiderman1 Gold IL'ite

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    He does not need to keep mum. There is NO shame, so he should feel free like anyone else to say what he wants. He is not a criminal. Also, with time - he may want to find a male partner, and he has the right to find a partner and live with one.

    So, all the parents need to do is get off his back (and if possible, accept him. If not, just dont bug him).
     
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  3. Spiderman1

    Spiderman1 Gold IL'ite

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    The same way the hamster changes into a duck (or was it a fish?) :)
     
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    Naksh Platinum IL'ite

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    Agreed SP :)
     
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    @rsk11584

    Huh??? When in Germany be a Nazi??? When in Australia be a racist??? Is this the line of your thinking??? Conform to society, before society kills you (or your parents)???

    I really don’t get you and your super duper advice. Instead of showing society that it's wrong being so conservative, and actually helping India progress, instead of encouraging people to take a stand and separate right from wrong, you are actually telling all of us, it is better to adapt the wrong, because one cannot change society? Better change the person??? Just for your information, we all make up society, and changing society can only be done, when each individual accepts that there are more facets to life than black and white. [FONT=&quot]
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