Please Advise Me What Should I Do?

@shravs3 i'm surprised as much as you are. my father preferred to invest in me only for my own good and for my future with my husband. my mil doesnt understand it. she still criticises that my father took a loan to contribute to this education whereas her son studied in US without taking such loans. so she always mocks me by mentioning how low I'm considering my class status. my parents took loan only bcz i told them its my responsibility to repay it back after i started earning. plus, i have a sister who is studying in her final year BDS in india and parents also need to have finance backup for her masters as she keeps telling them that she wants to do a masters soon after her BDS.
FIL always have a readymade sentence at me - 'i selected you because you are a bright student but why are you behaving like this?'. he will only say this and nothing beyond that. i dont know what stories mil tell fil about me. he wont speak to me at all other than saying that one sentence each time i speak to him.
they know husband talks to ex. fil says trust him he is your husband. mil says he is a guy and you dont question whom he should talk or not talk. no use in taking to them.

 

@Sandycandy thank you for your words sandy. H always shuts my mouth saying all my friends have wives who are earning. i have agreed to wait for two years and dont you think im doing a big sacrifice by waiting to start life? so be greatful towards that, finish studies fast and get a job. sometimes i lose my energy to argue back as i get mentally drained. i know this is not his sacrifice, neither he contributed to my fees. but sometimes i also feel that he is waiting for me and never spoke anything like calling it quits. he says im waiting, finish and get a job PERIOD. He doesnt take part in any conversations and even if he visits me mil comes along.

 

@paru123 they know he talks. i read on his phone once that his father advised him to stop talking to his ex too. but his mom scolds me back that i'm interferring in his personal space and i question with whom he should talk and not talk.
I'm very sure he wont go back to her and marry her, but i dont understand why he continues his rship with such a filthy woman. earlier he understood im annoyed over it. these days he says he doesnt talk but i know they talk. only improvement is she is getting married soon but dont know why she continues talking to him in private and tell all her private secrets only to him. that chemistry with my husband is bothering me.

 

thank you @Deepika23 for me to finish studies i should wiat until this dec and mind is going restless wondering what i will do until dec with these two. i'm trying hard to be focused on my studies and myslef.

 

@paru123 thanks paru... could you give me some suggestions as how i keep my mind focused only on myself until dec?