Hi All, I am facing a very stressful situation and will need your advice to take correct decision. I had an arranged marriage 1.5 years ago, all has not been very well ( interfering in-laws, brothers in-law, very very conservative family, husband who needs to ask parents and brother for any decision, big or small... you get the picture...). However, my husband is not a very bad person either, very sensitive, hard working, family oriented person. So, I wouldn't say that living with him is difficult. However, recently an incident happened that makes me think twice. Few weeks back, my husband suddenly became unconscious and had amnesia temporarily during which time he didn't recognize anyone. We rushed him to the hospital and the Neurologist told me that he has a neurological problem that is not recent but has been there for last 6 years. He is on constant medication. The thing is I have not been told about his problem before marriage. Post that as well, he has never shared this with me until the date of his hospitalization. Due to the heavy drugs he takes for the issues, he is now prone to clinical depression ( with symptoms leaning to suicide etc). Doctors say, it cannot be cured completely and can be a life long issue for which he has to seek medication. I am hurt that this fact was hidden from me before and during the time we were married. Yes, medical conditions can crop during the period one was married and I believe " In health and in sickness" but this is a case of cheating, I should have been told about this earlier, it would then have been my decision/ choice, but hiding a medical issue is not acceptable. I'm well educated smart individual. Had I done the same to my husband, being the narrow minded, conservative people they are, I am sure they would have not accepted me. Doctors are clear that my husband's condition will not improve, he will be prone to period of fits, amnesia etc + will have to deal with his depression. Long term, I don't see a future / a happy family ( our children etc)... Keeping aside the good virtues and just being practical, I feel I should divorce my husband (please don't judge me here, it takes a lot to be sane after going through all the hospital episodes and madness episodes). Should I divorce him?