Personnel Management:

Dear Birundha,
Your F B is too flattering !
Let us all thank God for giving us a common platform in the form of I L !
Love,
Chithra.

 

Dear Gayathri,
Thankyou for the prompt F B.
Well, this is such a vast subject - but I do have limitations as well !
All the time, we think about what others would think of us. It is our weakness if we take the opinion of others as a basis of our judgement of ourselves.
Let us understand that we are as much worth as we value ourselves. Yu are valuable to the extent you respect yourself, to the extent you have some dignity, some self-esteem about yourself.Your self esteem manifests itself in all your perceptions, decisions & actions. So, to command respect you must discover your self-worth.
You have already started the session, Gayathri !
Love,
Chithra.

 

Dear Aishu,
Thanks for joining the F B s!
It is very important that you care for the peson whom you want to manage. Even if we are managing a machine, we have to take good care of it. Every person has to be won and you cannot win people by demand. It is your care that makes the other person work for you ! Care is not just economic consideration; it is something that comes from an individual.Management certainly involves a number of things, but most important is the benign care for the other person working for you.
You , as an I T professional, are sure to be more aware of these things, Aishu !
Love,
Chithra.




quote=aishu22;63468]Dear chithra,
Great Write up.Must and Much needed for an IT Professional like me. Most Managers in IT do not know how to manage his/her team.It finally results in higher attrition rate. Productivity is proportianally reduced due to this.
Managing House is all the more difficulty since its relatives that you manage and even small things blow big if any word goes wrong.I'm carefully using my words if my In laws are there at home since it instigates a mis understanding in a spur of a second.

Well penned and beautiful quote from Gita. I have been listening to Vellukudi Krishnanas Gita upaniyasam in Podhigai for a month(Mid - March , April).

Thank you for the write up.[/quote]

 

Dear Sudha,
Thankyou for the feedback.
I always feel, everyone is a manager and management is involved everywhere, whether one occupies a managerial position or not !
That prompted me to write this post !
Love,
Chithra.

 

Dear Radha,
Thankyou very much for the F B.
Though the lines you quote are very true, that is possible only with a lot of self-will ! For that we need to pray to God more & more !
Love,
Chithra.
Now that your F B has also come, only Kamla's need to come ??!!

 

Dear Kamla,
I thank God first for making you take note of this thread ! You are perhaps the only person who has "fed me back" without fail, for all culture threads !
Yes, the home is the most complicated organisation to manage & we are on duty all the time, all our life ! We learn so much, correcting ourselves in the process, rather adapting ourselves to so many factors !
I strongly feel, an efficient housewife is an excellent personnel manager !
Thanks for joing me here, Kamla !
Love,
Chithra.