Hi everyone.. let’s go straight to the point. As I mentioned in my last thread I visited my sister in law for 15 days after her delivering a baby.. and I was concerned about my peaceful stay with mil there. Anyways.. to an update 14 days went by nicely.. I was helping when I could , not taking any burden.. I played smart and didn’t fooled by mil or sil.. on my last day mil made a fuss out of a very small thing.. she used to call my daughter by a funky name and I asked her not to call her like that since people will make that her permanent name.. and will make fun of it, which happens at my in laws place. And one more thing she used to stop her by saying some particular word for something in her native language so I asked her to say that in Hindi or English which she already. knows by giving her reasoning that if my daughter will say that native word to anyone, no one will have any clue what she is saying .. and I said both the things nicely and she was all right that time.. no issue at all. Later she made huge fuss out of these 2 things in absence of me , cried in front of dh, fil and bil telling them half story and just hiding that I have her proper reason for not to doing so. Anyway.. dh fought with me over this thing, and asked me if I gave her reason for this, I said Him whole story and he again went to mil asked her why she is behaving like that and asked her if she were ever never interrupted someone for something she is feeling is not right for her sons.. her drama went over her . Later dh asked her to talk to me and make things cleAr.. she came to me saying what is your problem..and I gave her my piece of mind straight.. I told her straight away that just think about what are you doing in my life from past so many year .. you don’t need to ask me .. you spoiled my relationship with my husband. I tried to not talk much over anything to her but sent her a clear message that she is not welcomed in my life now saying if I were the one who used to do all the things you were doing in my life and in between me and my husband .. if I were the one who used to make fights between you and fil then the kind of feeling you would have had for me I have the same feeling for you. She tried to made so much drama at time as well .. tried to overpower situation saying other things but again I told her straight my daughter is the only one who matters to my .. I don’t care about you so your son either anymore. Next day morning we came back having a heavy heart and mind and soul. I did my best to avoid everything in those 14 days and still she find something to lit a fire between me and dh. I removed her from fb.. blocked her in what’s aap.. stopped talking to her .. when husband got to know this he again shouted and tried to made me frightened , long face and everything.. but I didn’t care .. Now she is coming here to stay with us ... he told me 2 days back that mummy wants to come here to stay with us .. just for an idea for back at bil’s place.. mil have to do all the chores she avoided here at time of my delivery.. doing all the house work .. keeping baby.. changing her every time she is doing dirty diaper.. all the things .. sil is handling her quite well.. (at time of my delivery both sil and mil never stayed together before so they had no idea about their real self but during that time their relation become strained.) if she misses something she complains to bil in the same manner mil does for little things. She is done with all the work load and so wants to come here or god knows better. I am not at all in a race of becoming a good dil and I won’t allow her to take my advantage . But this throwed me in anxiety.. from past 2 days I am just thinking about how horrific things she will again made between me and dh.. I am done with her drama... wants to run away. I know she and dh and fil didn’t made it huge that time since sil was also there.. but here at our place dh would be in total mood of supporting them. Actually I don’t need his support as well I just want him to be fair which he never have been in the past. I feel I am just worried about loosing the peace only. From past 2 days I am just thinking about this .. they will just gather and atack me once again. Please give me some strength.