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Painful time in relationships

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Nik, Sep 17, 2015.

  1. thegirlygirl

    thegirlygirl Platinum IL'ite

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    Moral of the story, NEVER EVER commit to the guy during matrimonial talk even indirectly that you are willing to live with his parents jointly!!
     
  2. Nik

    Nik New IL'ite

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    This is ridiculous criticism, I think I should not have been on this thread or forum, Anyways thanks again for all your anger, frustration and criticism.
     
  3. Ragini25

    Ragini25 Platinum IL'ite

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    Nik,
    You both have made mistakes. But as you realized, though mistakes are on both sides, you are not going to find the right balance here, wrong place for you to have sought a FnBv
     
  4. yellowmango

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    edited--not helpful.
     
  5. thegirlygirl

    thegirlygirl Platinum IL'ite

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    Re read your original post. Your expectations from your wife and women in general are ridiculous too.
     
  6. samsWait

    samsWait Silver IL'ite

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    what did you want from this forum when you posted this thread here? Hear someone sympathizing you? Or hear what you wanted to hear? Unfortunately that does not happen anywhere unless you are with a bunch of hypocrites who just nod their head to whatever you say. So please go to the right forum which has the right hypocrites.
     
  7. samsWait

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    OP you could not take simple criticisms and trying to exit this thread and forum, but you expect your wife who is in a loveless marriage and with respectless ILs to fulfill her responsibility to her ILs? What did she get from your family to give anything back? This is not a fairy tale story where there is no selfishness and everything is selflessness. Sorry that does not happen in real life. You give something and you get back something. Your family gave her nothing- no love, no respect so she is not caring to your family. Fair game!!
     
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  8. ladki1

    ladki1 Silver IL'ite

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    op u need a maid to take care of ur parents...who can take care of their intrest,make happy,treat them lik a god and should not say anything......


    u should havemarry a girl like a maid one.....not a girl...u have spoild one girls life...and asking here...the person like u should not get married....
     
  9. Iamagoodgirl

    Iamagoodgirl Platinum IL'ite

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    High time to develop forum for men.Men in india need indusmen to vent frustration.
     

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