What is so wrong with a woman being “selfish”? I think if women were a little selfish right from the get go, put themselves ahead of others, took their own desires and wants seriously and pursued it, there won’t be so much built up resentment over the years. Maybe this lady was selfish enough to get a divorce, take the man to the cleaners and live happily. If she had been selfish from the get go, she could have salvaged a few more years. Being blind sighted in a divorce isn’t fun for anyone. Especially a spouse of over two decades. I don’t think living with parents and getting more resentful is the answer. This guy should live life king size, just like the queen seems to be doing. The best revenge after-all is to let go and live your best life. There are no young kids to worry about. He could do so much with the newfound freedom instead of moving in with parents.