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Open Marriages - How Common Is It In Our Country?

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Diesel72, Jan 15, 2017.

  1. Diesel72

    Diesel72 New IL'ite

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  2. anika987

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    Well,even if it is reality I doubt anyone in our society or even western society will be open about it.
    Even I have heard about it and pretty sure it co exists with so many other weird things in this world.
     
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    vidyanurse New IL'ite

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    What is open marriage?
     
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    Everything between the husband and the wife is perfect except the intimacy part. Instead of divorcing or fighting about it they look for intimacy outside the marriage. This is the theory part. In reality, they might get jealous or might develop attachment to the affair partner etc. Even in the West people are not really open about their open marriage.
     
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    beinghonest Senior IL'ite

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    I'm in an open marriage, however I do not live in India. It's not easy being open about open marriage as it's not the social norm. Also I do not want my kids to know about this until they're older and able to understand it better.
     
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    I wish what the above poster has said is honest and true ...but to be honest on my part , I take the above statement with A Pinch of salt.

    I have extensively read and collected information about open marriage available from almost all cultures.. I have seen two documentaries 1 on National Geographic another Discovery channel , each lasting for about 60 minutes on the concept of open marriage.

    The conclusion is that open marriage is a myth rather than the reality.

    The handful of couple who have in reality tried open marriage miserably failed.. that is what the conclusion of that documentary was.

    And I too believe, so.
     
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    OP, hope your married life is going on well.
    After this post , we haven't seen you around.
    Please tell us your married life has nothing to do with this open marriage thread.
     
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    Thanks for calling me a liar! Whatever.
     
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    Nothing changed for me.

    I have been fantasizing about this concept. Although I do not think people will agree to such things.
     
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    If both the partners cheat and know that other is doing it and not care so much about it, it is kind of technically open marriage.


    Also what happens if the guy is gay. Indian society does not accept relationships and there is a high possibility wife also allows it so that she could also benefit from such setup.
     

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