Hi, I'm married for 1.5 yrs and we have a 9 month old kid. My problem is I'm not sure whether he really loves. As he mostly does not do anything that makes me happy. Right now I work from home and I also do 95% of the household chores in addition to taking care of my kid. I'm really frustrated as I dont get much time for myself. I have lost almost 8kgs in the past five months since when I came to my husbands home after delivery. Earlier we had problems where my husband was not willing to send me home for delivery around 7 months. I wanted to go as I was advised bed rest by my doctor. So my mother stayed with me until 9 months and took me home for delivery.There was many problems during this period and my mother also suffered for sake of me. My husband does not like my parents from then and never allows me to go to my mom's home.Now that I'm much tired and feel that I need some rest for my mind and body for few days he does not allow me to go. Why does he behave like this without thinking from my point of view?. Should I go or stay back as he wishes? The reason he says is that he cannot be without me, But the way he behaves and treats me is different. When I was pregnant he has hit me,chucked me out of his room at midnight for that reason I said that I was upset the way his mom spoke to me. Also now when I came home with my kid he started behaving that his parents are only important to him and continued to scold and insult me in front of his parents. I never complain about my in-laws to him and whatever it is I dont speak back or react to my in-laws. If I react the news will go to my husband and he will scold me again. It happened once when my husband started to hit and abuse me saying it is due to their consent you are staying and living with me how dare you speak to them like that. Sometimes he behaves with me well speaking and laughing.Sometimes he says that he has taken a wrong decision to marry me( he was the one who said that he liked me...he is fair handsome and I'm dark ) My problem is he never understands me and does not want me to go to my mom's house.He keeps complaining about me about the work I do and the time I take to do but never praises the good thing I do. If I start to speak about my problems to him he says stays here if you wish otherwise get divorce and go to your parents home. How to make him a happy husband and make our married life a successful one.