Not knowing what to do.Please Help or suggest and sorry for the long mail

I need suggestion on my current situation...i am almost addicted to having writing my situation here and getting some relief and suggestions.
My husband is leaving to another country on his pr now in a few days ...mutual divorce talks were going on and somewhere i felt whatever happening is not right and messaged my husband about rethinking abt the relation ...we met again...he is the same talking bad about me...i tried convincing and got fed up and finally thought of saying yes to divorce....after some time he called me and said he wants to be with me..believes me that i love him truly and so he wants to be with me.He then said there ll be no parents interference as such from both sides and also he doesnt want to see my parents or talk to them even for some thing that has happened.He said he can take me only after he gets settled there and then he ll send me the documents soon since he is relocating there without any job.It ll take atleast 6 months from now to join him physically as per the visa procedure....Until then he said i can do job and no restrictions as such and since parents intereference would not be there ,i am free to be in my parents house until then or may be can move somewhere finding a job and all.....He asked me to think upon if i trust him too and wanted to be with him or not...i said yes because i heard things from him that i longed to hear from him from much time.I felt at some point in future parents matter ll set and he ll end up talking to them...for some days we used to chat after this decision and suddenly he said he wanted me to come to his parents house...be with them until i join him and no job as such and he ll send me some amount for monthly ...and that amount is also very nominal...i mean after taking a decision i felt how can he change again and ask me not to do a job and all.....honestly i dont find any problem in moving to his parents and not doing job also...but he changes so fastly and i am afraid to trust him....before he said no need to stay ....again after 2 weeks he asked me to not to do job...be with his parents and serve them instead of being in my house....i mean he changes so fastly for good or bad in my case...i dont know if its because of his mom 's influence or some reason...i made him clear that i want to do a job and i have no problem staying with them...once i find it i might move to wherever i get it...for that he got angry and started behaving cold to me...not spending any time with me...always prefer spending time with his parents...i mean he is with his parents from past yrs after coming back from US and now though he is leaving in a few days he doesnt have the feeling to spend much time with me and to get even more understanding...he feels i deserve being alone since i didnt agree his decision which he took second time ....i tried convincing him tht i ll be with his parents until i find a job but he is stubborn...after some arguments..finally he sticked to his first decision but still his behaviour is cold to me....i am feeling there is much time left and i wanted to spend some time with him....but he doesnt has anything for me...he plans something with his parents...doesnt even tell me cozz i ll make an issue and feel jealous and his plans ll be spoilt...i mean if he gives good amount of time for me and his parents ,why on hell would i complain...
he is saying our horoscopes doesnt match at all and may be i might become widow soon ..this is new point and even i checked the website...it mentioned there due to some mismatch i might end up as a widow so ours is not a good match...this is new point to my problem and am really worried if am thinking of going back to him and some point this widow thing...am really worried...how true can be such things...should i trust it...
some or the complain he has got with me...whenever we chat...
wht i thought was atleast 6 months time would be there before joining him ...meanwhile i can find a job,be independant and want to see his behaviour too during this period...if at all i feel anything fishy ,then worst case i can leave him...my mother doesnt like my idea of going back to himm again..my father is like okay if i can manage him...seeing him and his cold behaviour , i am worried about my future that whether i am taking a wrong decision again...i am 28 now and ll turn 29 soon in few months...i am worried if am wasting time again and also confused if trying for 6 months and meanwhile improving myself too.....i mean how cum a husband who doesnt have any physical pleasure for past one and half yr...thats our separation time....still doesnt want to spend time with his wife after reuniting...atleast he should plan for some outing or such thing atleast coz again we ll be living separately for another 6 months.....i mean am wondering if he has less interest on marriage,sex and all and also he doesnt like the idea of me working ...or since he is worried about his future where he is going to relocate and all ,is he really avoiding our topic since it creates some stress...i am not knowing how to think properly and behave smartly with him...
i need all ur suggestions ...i guess many Ilites got have vexed up suggesting on my situation but my life is changing in minutes and not knowing anything....