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Not In Good Terms With In-laws

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by HollieEustis, Jul 15, 2016.

  1. HollieEustis

    HollieEustis New IL'ite

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    Who among here doesn't have a good relationship with their in-laws? Before it was all well but when they started to live with us problems arise. I really want to resolve issues between us but I know it would be impossible. I wonder how long can I take this kind of relationship with my in-laws?
     
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  2. Sairindhri

    Sairindhri Gold IL'ite

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    Why do I have to dig into my past?? Done and dusted is what I would think about it now.

    Well, what is your problem? What sort of issues and maybe if you tell them other ILites would be able to give their advice.
     
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    faithgrime Senior IL'ite

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    I understand your situation. Can you share other details? I mean the cause of the problem?
     
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    sweetyXOX Senior IL'ite

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    Hi,
    in my case my in-laws visit us every other year and they stay with us for 6 months. My mom-inlaw doesn't like to do anything not even watching TV or saying "Hello" to our Indian neighbors or to our friends. I've come to a conclusion that her nature itself is like that I can't change her attitude or anything.
    When they are around my husband doesn't talk much with me coz they think that my husband gives more priority to me then them. So, I realized it n never except much talking infort of my in-laws. I let go... But me n husband have good understanding. I think relationship between you & you're husband is more important than anything.
     
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    Hi not much you can do about it, just accept it, that is my fate, my IL detest me, the sight of me, I just take it with a grain of salt. Both parties have to be willing to make things better, and if they are not nothing will change.
     
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