Yes... threads in this forum are tough to find. Not only that, whatever you post here do not go into your "post count". If you are really keen on the ratio of likes/posts like Thyagarajan (another member working on keeping dementia at bay by forum exercise) had noticed and congratulated you on, you ough to post more often on Community Chit-Chat forum threads and get "likes". [ notice that I had "liked" your post here, not just for the effort to get here, but for the actual content of your post] Insomnia is what makes seniors to get up and do what needs to be done. Whether they go on social forums or just attend to other calls. FYI... we weren't hijacking the thread over there. It was about "how to keep calm"... and not necessarily about dealing with little tots at home. Life can be more agitated with seniors under one's care than little tots. You can see that even nameless unknown seniors can agitate you on the internet, and when that happens, you'd post in the thread "how to keep calm" when you deal with us. but ... Never Mind. You are always welcome to post all of whatever you wish on this thread.