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Discussion in 'Friends & Neighbours' started by priyakannan, Nov 21, 2019.

  1. deeprapriya

    deeprapriya Gold IL'ite

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    Just ignore that peraoband carry on with life.... Don't talk with him...If he approaches for asking anything, just make sure your husband answers him.... These kind of people are there everywhere...just ignore, so many things are there in your personal life which needs to be taken care...so enjoy it and dont get into thinking unwanted persons...
     
  2. Twinkel

    Twinkel Platinum IL'ite

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    Ignore him. Not worth wasting even few minutes doubting and thinking about a man who isn't related to you or your life and stop giving liberty to any man who give you confused signs. If you have a happy married life, have wisdom to know that this is how disastrous chapters of married life begin with.
     
  3. Amulet

    Amulet Platinum IL'ite

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    :thumbsup:

    Love thy neighbour - is sometimes called the #2 commandment. I wondered if other faiths have a similar "golden rule". Apparently so...<source>

    ....many faiths and secular beliefs have in common – “Love thy neighbour”, or the “Golden Rule” as it is also known.

    Practically every faith that exists in the world today has this Golden Rule in some shape or form as part of their teachings. We chose a few examples from different faiths to highlight this fact.

    Judaism: “You shall not take vengeance or bear a grudge against your kinsfolk. Love your neighbor as yourself: I am the LORD.” — Leviticus 19:18

    Christianity: "Do to others what you want them to do to you." Matthew 7:12

    Islam: "As you would have people do to you, do to them; and what you dislike to be done to you, don't do to them.” — Kitab al-Kafi, vol. 2, p. 146

    Baha’i faith: “And if thine eyes be turned towards justice, choose thou for thy neighbour that which thou choosest for thyself.” — Bahá'u'lláh

    Hinduism: “If the entire Dharma can be said in a few words, then it is—that which is unfavorable to us, do not do that to others.” — Padmapuraana, shrushti 19/357–358

    Buddhism: “Hurt not others in ways that you yourself would find hurtful.” — Udanavarga 5:18

    Jainism: “A man should wander about treating all creatures as he himself would be treated.” — Sutrakritanga, 1.11.33

    Sikhism: “Precious like jewels are the minds of all. To hurt them is not at all good. If thou desirest thy Beloved, then hurt thou not anyone's heart.” — Guru Arjan Dev Ji 259, Guru Granth Sahib

    Taoism: “Regard your neighbour's gain as your own gain, and your neighbor's loss as your own loss.” — T'ai Shang Kan Ying P'ien
     
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  4. priyakannan

    priyakannan Senior IL'ite

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    Thanks Priya for your view and feedback. Very much useful at this juncture to me.
     
  5. priyakannan

    priyakannan Senior IL'ite

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    Thanks, now more clear on how to approach
     
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    Amulet Platinum IL'ite

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    I do love this acknowledgement! A proper closure too.
     
  7. priyakannan

    priyakannan Senior IL'ite

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    Hi Amulet,
    This forum seems very helpful for lot of females please avoid hurting.
     
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    Amulet Platinum IL'ite

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    If you believe that, you have a difficult road ahead. Walk safely.
     
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    SGBV Finest Post Winner

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    Please ignore.
    I know it hurts, specially when you are repeatedly & sarcastically targeted by someone.
    It can irritate you, if you are already disturbed; hence came here to vent.
    I've been there, done that & learnt my lessons the hard way.

    Don't lose your cool. The report button is just a click away.
     
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    Topaz49 Gold IL'ite

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    If you are not sure that it will affect your marriage, then, you have the answer.
     

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