Need your inputs ladies :)

Lakshmi,

One word of caution. You are saying till now he did not insist you to stay in his mom's house. So it means he does not think it is a big deal and has no opinion either way. This is working in your favor. Do not delay anymore. Decide clearly what you want to do to suit yourself and baby. Then speak to him now itself and firm up all the travel plans before you go.

If you go to India with nothing decided, you may get stuck badly. Because your mil and sil will definitely have an opinion on where you should stay etc. and he will become affected by their words which our men do very easily and say what is the big deal. you stay here only. Then if you say only one week here and all no one will listen. To guard against that, you make the plans now itself and book the tix also. Once tix are booked, no one can say or do anything. If sil or mil bring up the topic you can say oh too bad. He and I discussed it and took a decision already. what to do, we cant waste the tix can we? You have nothing to lose by acting immediately.