Hi Ladies, I'm a 27 year old & my divorce is in progress, will be finalised by April. I came back to parent's house somewhere in Dec 2010. Before we could decide about my divorce, my mom was diagonised with Cancer. I was helping my mom. Now my mom is doing better. My parent's want my elder brother who is 29 to be married. My parents want him to live seperately post marriage & my brother is okay with that idea. My brother wants his future wife to be working. My relatives are saying that if he wants his future wife to be working, then expectation from girl's family would to live in a joint family, so that work load will be shared. I'm not sure what might be the expectation, but my parents are very particular that he should live separetly post marriage. Their point is that he should get some privacy first & he should get some responsibility in future. Now my questions are: 1)Somehow or other my brother's profile is getting poor response in matrimonial sites. It has been mentioned in the profile that I'm divorced & living with the parents. Should that not be disclosed at this stage? I mean he is decent looking, well educated & working in a good company. Why else his profile will get poor response? 2)Should I move out from the parent's house. I didn't move out because I wanted to help my mom who was sick that time. Now I feel odd to be at the house, when my brother will get married. My mom wants me to stay with them as she says it should not be a problem as my brother will be living in a nuclear family . I have no problems living in my parents house or moving out. For that matter, I can even move to my own house.But point is whether is it necessary. My mom is getting very emotional when i mention this , usually ends up in crying. Please help me out ladies I'm not able to think straight.