i need to vent...so dh's (moronic friend) friend suggests an alliance for dh's sister. this person is 32 yrs working in the usa military. he suggests that this may be a good alliance for dh's sister who is 37 yrs old. I was all for it. DH rejected saying marriage wont work and then calls his parents to talk abt counselling for his sister. As usual they denied anythng was wrong with their daugther. DH questioned that if she is allright then why isnt she talking to him for 6 yrs. DH's parents blasted him saying he doesnt care for his sister. Right after blasting him, they ask him to get laptop, iphone, printer, laptop bag for his niece saying she needs laptop and printer for school. All these gifts we have to buy and still his parents say he doesnt care abut his sis???? His sister doesnt talk to him, doesnt ask about his sons well being (forget about me - i am outsider whos sole responsibility is to earn money) but still he takes care of all their expenses and all their costly gifts??? Isnt that taking care of his sister even though she never appreciates it or even talks to him???? I, as a wife, have to work cook clean support myself and not ask for anything in return. I only ask to not live with in-laws but now it looks like even that freedom wont be granted. All his parents crappy behaviour is ok but if I question, then I am the bad person. Sick of it...Hate going to india!