Hi all I am here to seek a suggestion...so mil, sil and kids are here for the past one week..mil will stay back for some time...sil will return back after 2 weeks...I tried my best to be a good host...my cook and maid did all chores and all they did was sit and gossip...they commented about my home etc etc..nothing good comes from their mouths..i absolutely had no issues with it and was happy with the kids...some minor argument s happened with h due to them. H is trying so hard to impress them...all I could do is sympathise him... The issue is during mealtime they start complaining about food continuously...I ignored this behaviour to a great extent...I felt so sorry for my cook...she cook good with less oil, spices and salt ..anybody who wants it may add it ..I tried telling them the same but they were not doing the same...these are the same ladies who does all the work and cooking at their home...though their food is loaded with oil and all unhealthy stuffs, I just eat it without complaining to respect the host when I visit...but they think that they are master chefs when they really are not!!! They also eat so much of junk food and complain that it's because of my food! So a heated conversation happened where they started telling from tomorrow on we will teach the cook etc..by the way they don't know hindi..i told calmly, she may get confused...and we cook this way with less oil because it's good for health and that's how we eat always...they retorted fine, we will cook for ourselves...ask cook to make it only for your family...I felt bad and tried convincing but these are adamant sorts!! H told to leave it to their wish... Today onwards they are cooking separately...though the children loves my food, they forcibly feed them what they made...I also showed as if I don't care...what is the best way to tackle people like these??? Otherwise the situation at home is normal...if I ignore they will say I did not even feed them when they visited me...I feel irritated on seeing how my energy is getting wasted unnecessarily dealing with all this crap Suggestions please ladies to handle this?