Dear chitra mam, I have read all the slokas posted by you.No words to praise you...I need a help from you.My friend is widow..nw we are planning for her re-marriage..Now only she has accepted for the remarrige.A good heartedperson is willing to marry her.But there are so many obstacles for their marrige.my friend is so upset..she is in a bad condition and so depressed...I dont know how to console her..Is there any slokas to keep her mind relax and to overcome the obstacles for her remarriage..Pls help me in this regard.Thanks in advance.I need all your suggestions and prayers
dear machan All your friend has to do is for three Fridays, after taking bath, take a good coconut, break it into proper two portions and wipe it with cloth and pour melted ghee and add thiri ( wick). Apply chandan and kumkum on the outer shell for both, place it on a plate in the pooja room / place. Pray for the good cause to happen without vignam and do namaskaaram to the coconut diya. Points to remember 1. From getting up in the morning till the pooja is done DO NOT SPEAK TO ANYONE. Better to inform all . 2. Prepare ONLY SWEET from the coconut diya and to be consumed by the immediate family members and no friends, servants to taste or eat or given it off. Just within 3 Fridays , one can see the positive result. best wishes
Dear mathangi mam, thank you very much for your reply...I feel very happy to see this reply.. will ask my friend to do this pooja ..One doubt Is this to be done in morning or in the evening.....
It's always better to do in the morning for various reasons. first is one has to have mouna vrath, which is not possible to keep till evening. Second mornings are fresh and keeping the uncertainties in the world, it's better to do in the morning so you do not skip one friday in your 3 friday list.
