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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by swethasweety, May 14, 2018.

  1. vaas

    vaas Bronze IL'ite

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    The title is not appropriate.
    You are not looking for advice. You want people to say what you did is correct...

    Too much of generalization... you were generalizing that all the ladies would breakup with current bf if they find better one.. lol.. such an immature generalization... you really dont know the meaning of love...

    Your ex bf is really a fool for not understanding that you saved his life with breaking up with him.. he deserves much better.
    Some people are sensitive in dealing with relationships. You will never understand it. It looks filmy style to u..

    Your own sister, common friends will treat you as a villain till ur ex bf settles in his life. Live with it... or just stop comminication with them.
     
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  2. kevinde

    kevinde Senior IL'ite

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    I find it interesting.majority of man will not behave like your ex.i cannot imagine myself begging someone to comeback who dont want me.my ego willnot allow that.This type of behaviour are also taken as unmanly and weak among guys.but for the same reason girls always criticize us as emotionless,heartless,"man dont fight for relationship" etc.so i guess girls also dont have much respect for sensitive guys.and lastly i dont think you are doing something wrong.you two are not compatible and it is better to breakup then being unhappy.and your ex will also take a lesson from it.
     
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  3. swethasweety

    swethasweety New IL'ite

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    Wow ,At last someone come up with a sensible post ,no girl likes weak men
     
  4. kevinde

    kevinde Senior IL'ite

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    Thanks for being honest.but thing is girl also shouldnot blame men as emotionless,heartless if a guy breakup with her for better girl or if he easily move on from a relationship.because inexperienced guys gets a very vague idea that girls are damsell in distress and he should stick to her for eternity and thus he ended up being weak untill he experience his first breakup.
     
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    Barbie2013 Silver IL'ite

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    I totally disagree with ur behavior. Have you told him your expectations?
    be with clear conscience and then decide what to do.
     
  6. gouthamijasti

    gouthamijasti New IL'ite

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    hahahha..agree deepika ,true lucky he is..& i feel this is a joke or something.I dont find anything real in whatever swethasweety said.Its like fiction story !!!
     
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  7. swethasweety

    swethasweety New IL'ite

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    No,not for views ,planning to sell this in amazon kindle .what a dumbo
     
  8. gouthamijasti

    gouthamijasti New IL'ite

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    u r dumb enough to start a thread like this .. i dont see any logic/reason in this rather than wasting peoples time.
    What for did u start this thread
     
  9. gouthamijasti

    gouthamijasti New IL'ite

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    Instead of writing all this using ur valuable time u should have used 5 min to clear this with ur ex!!!
     
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  10. gouthamijasti

    gouthamijasti New IL'ite

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    Immediate Advice : "get an appointment with PSYCHIATRIST"
     
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