The title is not appropriate. You are not looking for advice. You want people to say what you did is correct... Too much of generalization... you were generalizing that all the ladies would breakup with current bf if they find better one.. lol.. such an immature generalization... you really dont know the meaning of love... Your ex bf is really a fool for not understanding that you saved his life with breaking up with him.. he deserves much better. Some people are sensitive in dealing with relationships. You will never understand it. It looks filmy style to u.. Your own sister, common friends will treat you as a villain till ur ex bf settles in his life. Live with it... or just stop comminication with them.