Natural Way To Prevent Pregnancy?

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  1. dollysonpari

    dollysonpari Silver IL'ite

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    Hello Friends,

    Im looking forward for you help or suggestion regarding to prevent pregnancy in natural way?

    I already have 3 yr old DD. Now my husband want to try another second one. Due to other family issues with in-laws i dont want to go for second kid as my life is unstable with my husband and also to mention he is typical mommy's boy..( eg:Even to have sex with me he needs his mom's permission) Even for first kid since his mom told to have kid with me , he tried for first baby.. im very very disappointed with his attitude.

    If he wants any job to be done from me , he will be very sweet. after he will show his true color and also will blame me in all possible ways..

    Now my Mil have ordered for second baby with my hubby and he wants to try for the second one.. I tried my level best to explain and im not ready for the second one..buts its totally no use to talk and convince with my husband.

    in chennai and one doctor told my mom that birth control pills are banned now... Will skipping sex during ovulation help in any way ?

    Is the any other herb or ayurvedic medicine which can be brought online to avoid pregnancy? or any home remedies for prevent pregnancy?

    I cannot consult doctor without my husband's knowledge for other methods.. i feel im really in helpless situation..
     
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    Cantdecide Silver IL'ite

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    I am sorry you are in this situation and position. Are there other forms of birth control you can take? There is a shot you can take that lasts a year, but I don't know if it's permissible where you reside. Is it legal to get a prescription in another city?

    Otherwise, you would need to abstain to ensure 100% that you don't get pregnant. You can also track your ovulation (through cervical mucus, LH testing, and basal temperature testing) and only have sex after you have ovulated for the month up through when you get your next period. It is not a certain method however. You are most fertile approximately starting from five days before you ovulate through about 36-48 hours after you ovulate. If you are so unhappy are you able to reach out to your family for help?
     
  3. anika987

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    To have sex his mom should give permission??????I am agahst..

    I feel so bad about your situation and yes this is not a good time
    To have another child..

    Natural ways like papaya,sesame seeds you can start heating foods which increase body heat.Do lots of exercise.After sex, right away go to restroom and clean up yourself but even after all this chances are there.birth control pills I don't recommend . I feel terrible to give tips to prevent pregnancy.


    Can you put copper t consulting a gynec without hubby's knowledge?
     
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    Ocp are banned? Since when?
     
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    penpaal Gold IL'ite

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    So sorry to hear your story.. but trust me you have to put your feet down.now you are searching for a shortcut.if in this matter if you won't stand up for yourself,then when will you do it?:flushed:

    Either convince your husband you need sometime and you have to see change in him.
    Otherwise be strong and tell him a big NO.

    Tomorrow if your MIL or husband scold your baby without any reason will you be able to keep quite ? You will react right ? So better be more strong now ..
     
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    madras2018 Platinum IL'ite

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    That is not true. Only emergency contraceptive pills / morning after pills (i-pill) is banned. Check this :
    OMG, Still No Emergency Contraceptive Pills if You Live in Tamil Nadu?

    Regular contraceptive pills are used by lakhs of women in Chennai because other than birth control, they are also used to regularize periods for women with menstrual issues and even prescribed by skin specialists when trying to cure acne.

    I use dronis for one of the reasons mentioned above. Pls see a doctor yourself and get the medicines.
     
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    generic Gold IL'ite

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    Birth control pills are not banned..consult a gynec and start taking them..
    Or get the injectable like depo provera which is longer lasting..or get a copper T..
    Natural methods are not completely effective .
     
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    dollysonpari Silver IL'ite

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    Thank u friends for replying me.. will try to do something..
     
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    Really I find your situation to be disheartening. Abstaining from sex on the days you ovulate would be of some help but it cannot be guaranteed that you won't have a child. And also Try avoiding intimacy in the early morning hours (when the brain and body is fresh and more functional). If Visiting a doctor is difficult, try consulting doctors online. There are few who offer consultation services.
     
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    This is just wrong in so many levels. A grown married man needs his moms permission to have sex with his wife. Unbelievable.

    Contraceptive pills are not banned, I bought it in chennai a few months back. Consult a gyne n get a prescription. Nobody will even know it.

    I haven't heard of a natural contraception that is very effective.

    Till you get the meds, try sticking to the ovulating cycle. Not sure how effective it is though.
     

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