we live abroad and i am pregnant with my 2nd baby.My Il;s & parents wants my delivery in India.the prob is ,my il's and parents live in different city (by train it tajes 24 hrs travel).i am planning to go india during my 7th month & stay there untill my baby is 3-4 monts old. My il's saying since namakaranam done at IL's place when the baby is 21 days old ,asking me to stay at thier place.But my MIL is alone & she doesn;t have anybody to support her.she doesnt have a maid(doesn;t likes to keep maid). so she alone has to cook & look after other household activities.I alone only have to do my kids needs,even when the newborn arives,which i feel difficult. My parents are at thier native place so have lot of reletives to help us in various things.so i feel delivery at my mom's place is better. MY QUESTION IS :can we do namakaranam of the baby during 3rd month?OR can it be done at my parents place.