1. Have an Interesting Snippet to Share : Click Here
    Dismiss Notice

My Random Musings On School

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by Agatha83, Oct 6, 2018.

  1. Agatha83

    Agatha83 IL Hall of Fame

    Messages:
    1,231
    Likes Received:
    2,198
    Trophy Points:
    300
    Gender:
    Female
    My evening walks usually take me by with the wayside of a Private school. Standing there for a few moments, provides me a golden opportunity to have a glimpse into the lives of students from different walks of life. It is a unique scenario out there - Nervous parents waiting outside the gates, with anxiety writ large on their faces, whose faces light up with a smile the moment they see their wards emerging from the crowd; tired teens munching a packet of Lays in their hands discussing Big Boss; the security guard shouting at the auto drivers, playing raunchy songs, to park their autos away from the gates; Scooty moms dumping school bags, lunch bags, two kids, and their dog impatiently, screaming kid inside the school bus; crying kids in search of their parent. This scene sent me down memory lane to my childhood days in school, one which was filled with endless fun and laughter, with me carrying just a small bag of books, walking all the way singing and dancing, with no worries, none of my parents to escort me.


    What surprised me at the school today were the stroller bags carried by the children, which I used to see only in airports or railway stations. I saw kids ranging from 5 years old to teenagers all pulling a heavy stroller along the road — a loathsome task given the uneven surfaces of chennai roads.


    Given the high humidity levels of Chennai climate, many students were perspiring heavily under their thick uniforms, with noose-like ties, and thick leather shoes, the most uncomfortable attire in the universe, one which even the western countries have done away with.


    The price parents pay for this education is a hefty one, and with two children in a family it’s a heavy investment they indulge, with no returns guaranteed.


    Inspite of the presence of scores of Government and Corporation schools, where the fees are highly affordable, it is the poor infrastructure and mediocre quality of education, which drives parents away from these schools. It’s a matter of disgrace that private schools fleece the parents thoroughly under the garb of high value education.


    The most reputed the school is, the longer is the queue of parents waiting for admission forms, some even longer than those found outside the US consulate premises, with grandparents taking turns, many spending a sleepless night. The mind boggling price of this simple form will put even a one way short distance airline ticket to shame. But why do parents incur such a heavy expenditure for the sake of their kids, sacrificing all their pleasures they could have had with that money? Yes, every parent wishes their children to have a very bright future,with best financial stability and a high status in the society, including a dream job in the US or even the remote Papua New Guinea.


    But with all this pricey education the children receive, are they equipped to deal with the nitty gritty of daily life? The schools are manufacturing companies churning out scores of robots, vying for a seat in either medical or an engineering college. But does it teach human values, good morals, or does it impart the mental or physical strength, the courage, confidence to stand up against atrocities committed in the society, good communication skills and above all, the power of reasoning and thirst for knowledge? Whatever creativity the children possess during their early years is completely snuffed off, under the garb of literacy. Do they make the children street smart, capable of outwitting thugs goons and stalkers?


    Here the parents and schools have immense responsibility in instilling courage and confidence in the children. Instead of comparing marks with those of other kids, parents have to equip their children with life skills which will go a long way in making the kids aware of the choices they make, differentiate between the good and evil, irrespective of the presence or absence of any support. Teach them irrespective of gender, martial arts, karate, judo — which enhances the confidence and improves their concentration. indulge them in games like football, basketball where the children build up a team spirit and learn to accept both success and failure with a pinch of salt. Take them to old age homes, orphanages, slums, prisons, where they get to know the harsh realities of life.


    There has to be a thorough overhaul of our education system, in which each parent instead of being a passive bystander seeing their kids getting mauled under the huge educational pressure, have to come together, share their views about the curriculum, syllabus and literally fight for a visible change in the curriculum.


    With all these thoughts crowding my mind as I was walking, my train of thought was interrupted by a conversation between a cherubic 4 year old girl and a watchman of an apartment. She was dressed as Lord Krishna, and explaining the Viswaroopam dance she performed that day in her school to the 60 year old watchman. I could not but control my laughter when the watchman seriously retorted about actor Kamalahasan’s Viswaroopam movie and explained how it was one of the best movie that he ever saw. This contradictory conversation was fun,and impressed by the girl’s intelligence, her story telling ability, incorporating dance movements, I asked the girl her name. She said it was Yeseshvini - a tongue biting name, hard to remember, but what was etched in my memory forever was the million dollar beatific smile on her face with which she bid me goodbye. One question for which I am yet to find an answer- will this smile last or will it be lost!
     
    Loading...

  2. iyerviji

    iyerviji IL Hall of Fame

    Messages:
    34,594
    Likes Received:
    28,764
    Trophy Points:
    640
    Gender:
    Female
    Awesome post as always which brings all of us our memories. You have so minutely described about the children , parents etc.

    Thanks to one aunty because of whom me and my sister could continue our school that too in aconvent school without fees. Those days there were no contract bus and we had to go walking. But that was also fun. When I was in Sixth standard the teacher and students contributed for my school uniform . It was difficult to buy books.Thanks to my best friend with whom I used to go to school and siend two hours in her house,one hour study and one hour play. She even paid half my fees for typewriting after school which helped me to get a job as Typist. Through my bosses I was promoted as steno and then senior assistant.

    As you said now a days children have to carry heavy bag . They have so much competition and have to face challenges . Besides studies they have to attend so many classes

    Enjoyed reading your post
     
  3. GeetaKashyap

    GeetaKashyap IL Hall of Fame

    Messages:
    3,921
    Likes Received:
    9,220
    Trophy Points:
    460
    Gender:
    Female
    @Agatha83,

    This is a good analytical article advocating the real meaning of education. I thoroughly enjoyed and agreed with all the points you mentioned.

    Truly, education has lost its purpose in India. (and I don't know about the other countries.) It never teaches and equips students with basic life skills essential for survival, instead the focus is on irrelevant matter. As a result, when the child is out of the school, it can never have the guts to survive independently. Given the bleak job scenario, having some skill is essential. The primary focus could be to teach high-schoolers, especially in rural parts, things that are relevant to them like, bank transactions, agricultural requirements, first -aid, some relevant practical skills etc, while extensive History, (world) Geography could be avoided or be kept for general awareness.

    Even after professional courses, our children are not confident to take up professional roles! Often their curricula is outdated. A duty doctor once asked me what my complaint was? When I informed him of my issue and showed my doctor's diagnosis cum prescription letter, he still asked me, 'Do you have phle-gaam?' It took me a few seconds to understand that he meant, phlegm! :)
     
    Viswamitra, Thyagarajan and Agatha83 like this.
  4. jayasala42

    jayasala42 IL Hall of Fame

    Messages:
    5,367
    Likes Received:
    10,570
    Trophy Points:
    438
    Gender:
    Female
    An interesting article! There is a mountain of difference between schools in 1950s and the present day institutions.There is a kindergarten school in our street.I see cute little kids carried by either parents , and the kid beginning to weep as the school campus is nearing. Some children are playful. Many school buses are parked in our street.The children waiting for a few mts just ask for water or 'going choo-choo'.Daily I eagerly await some cheerful faces, some complaining that her Amma would have gone to office.A girl expresses her desire to stay with me for a few hrs until her mummy returns home from office.Actually there is nobody at home and she would wait at the stair in front of the locked house until her mother's arrival.
    Reg syllabus, taking a heavy load, too much competition, too much extra curriculars-it is a pitiable sight.This true picture was dramatized in a stage play-U. K. G. by Varadarajan.

    The four year old child is the daughter of a home maker mother and grocery shop owner father. The mother wakes her child at 5 A. M. make her do some yoga, karathe practise,feeds breakfast, brings her home at 1P.m. takes her to carnatic music and bharatha natyam class,gives her some coaching in some games.One after another the mother signs up for many programmes.The child becomes depressed.A ref is made to a psychiatrist.
    The consultant asks the child why she is so sad and what she actually wants. The kid innocently says " Amma madiyile thaachukkanum" I want to sleep on my mother's lap ". See, what the child longs for.
    The child is taken out from all extra curriculars, advised not to compare her with any other child.Father says' let her look after my grocery shop. I want my child to be happy."
    A happy child is a healthy child.
    A healthy kid turns into a smart kid.
    It is not a world of scores and marks alone.Let us teach our children how to face the reality.

    Jayasala 42
     
  5. Urmila

    Urmila Silver IL'ite

    Messages:
    73
    Likes Received:
    183
    Trophy Points:
    83
    Gender:
    Female
    Very beautiful narration taking ones memory back to school days.
     
    Agatha83 and Thyagarajan like this.
  6. Cheeniya

    Cheeniya Super Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

    Messages:
    12,637
    Likes Received:
    16,941
    Trophy Points:
    538
    Gender:
    Male
    Dear @Agatha83
    A great post.
    This reminds me of the Aashirvad Atta ad that I saw a couple of ears back.
    It is very typical of an Indian Mother
    Right from our childhood, we have heard stories from our grandma that ended as 'they lived happily ever after'. The purpose of all this struggle is to retain that smile on our face. If the life we live erases that smile off our face, it is only our fault. Haven't we heard that if we smile, the whole world smiles with us? If we ever lose our smile, it can only mean that we have lost our way. I often wonder why the photographers tell us to smile when they click the camera. Do we smile only if someone directs us to do so? Let us not forget to smile. It is the only vehicle that will ferry us through this journey of life happily
    sri
     
  7. Agatha83

    Agatha83 IL Hall of Fame

    Messages:
    1,231
    Likes Received:
    2,198
    Trophy Points:
    300
    Gender:
    Female
    Dear Viji,

    Going through all your writings, I have always wondered as to how you retained the youthful charm, positive energy and a smiling disposition, inspite of all the hurdles you have gone through in life. Only a few people blessed by God could have such a sunny temperament and you are sure one among them. Thank you Viji for your amazing FB, one which portrays all your struggles and the way you overcame them patiently.

    Agatha83
     
    iyerviji and Thyagarajan like this.
  8. Thyagarajan

    Thyagarajan IL Hall of Fame

    Messages:
    11,728
    Likes Received:
    12,548
    Trophy Points:
    615
    Gender:
    Male
    :hello: brisk and brilliant scene and as one of your avid readers you had me a vicarious enjoyment at the gates of modern school. It transported my memories to my own school days. I agree in toto with your viewpoints and those posted their views. Thanks and regards.
     
  9. Agatha83

    Agatha83 IL Hall of Fame

    Messages:
    1,231
    Likes Received:
    2,198
    Trophy Points:
    300
    Gender:
    Female
    Dear Geetha,

    I have seeen many youngsters struggling hard to fill up a simple bank chalan, inspite of their excellent grades in the school. When it comes to jobs, communication is an important skill required, be it marketing, banking or any other job. But students lack the confidence and courage to talk to people on any subject.
    Many children are pushed into courses like engineering and doctor for which they have no passion. When I wanted to study psychology and English, my Principal who interviewed me , forced me into taking MPC, looking at my excellent marks. Everybody in my house made fun out of me when I announced my decision to take up Psychology as a main subject. It is sad that this practice continues till now- not allowing the children to follow the profession of their choice.
    When we have doctors who pay 30L to get a degree and pass the exams paying money at every stage- this is what happens.They can’t identify simple diseases!

    Agatha83
     
    Mistt, GeetaKashyap and Thyagarajan like this.
  10. Viswamitra

    Viswamitra Finest Post Winner

    Messages:
    13,409
    Likes Received:
    24,172
    Trophy Points:
    538
    Gender:
    Male
    Dear Agatha,

    The world has become the people evaluating each other whether one is from an affluent family, what school she studied in, which college she went to and which family she married to. The whole exercise is branding/labeling a person as belonging to one category or another. Those who didn't get to the level they aspired to qualify under the branding exercise are aspiring to make the next generation to qualify under a label above.

    When we went to school, there were classes for arts and crafts, physical training, moral, etc. The whole school assembled in the morning to do prayers, National Anthem when the National flag was hoisted. When the boys focused on carpentry, masonry, electrical wiring, mechanical assembly, etc., the girls focused on embroidery, stitching, painting, drawing, etc. In the moral classes, the teaches spent time teaching important values that one should have in life to be successful. The teachers really discussed the areas of interest of the children with the parents and what subject excites the children the most.

    Nowadays, the schools have become a factory where the children are products in the assembly line with certain standard skill-set that allows them to branch out to engineering, medical or other subjects whatever the parents want them to pursue in the college without really bothering about what is their area of interest. If a student is from an affluent family and has studied in a particular school, she should pursue certain professional courses without fail. If she is interested in media and communication, for example, the parents are shattered.

    The students are head down focused on studies and barring a few, they are no longer focused on writing comprehension, public speaking, etc. A graduate or post-graduate when she gets her first job doesn't know how to interact with the peers and superiors. They learn it the hard way of experiencing it first hand. Sometimes, they find it hard to even present their brightest ideas in a meeting. Some of them find it hard to work with other peers and remain secluded in a work environment.

    Only way to overcome this ordeal is to introduce several other branches of education at the school level so that they are trained in those areas at an impressionable age. The focus has to be to identify the natural skill-set children have, nurture them well for them to excel and build knowledge through their interest to learn more than dumping information. The competitive exams have not served any purpose other than those who learned how to compete getting admitted to colleges they never wanted to go in the first place.

    We need to send educators to Norway to see how the children are educated in that country to set this ball rolling. Dumping information for several hours a day added with homework only get the children exhausted. There has to be breaks in between and opportunity to demonstrate their interest in certain areas. Even sports and entertainment interest need to be identified very early in life. The availability of facilities should never be hindrance to the growth of the children. The school system requires to be remodeled completely.

    Viswa
     
    Last edited: Oct 6, 2018
    kkrish, Agatha83 and Thyagarajan like this.

Share This Page