My Life Pages Written By God

God has written a huge book with all the characters of this universe. i thought of reading my page under the headings RUKMANI.There are so many Rukmani in this world and I was worried a bit that how can I find my page?what a wonder I found it easily as God has written my parents name and my address following in that page .i shouted with joy as if I have invented a new planet .whenever I read a book first I go through some pages and jump to the last page to find whether the ending is a Happy ending or sad one.

Started reading my pages and enjoyed the childhood life events and proceeded further.Then starts the next chapter in my life entering into a big family as a sweet little daughter in law.on the first day my husband said to me “you have to give respect to my Mother,my brothers my sisters and my Annis(Bhabis) and have to adjust with them .i should not get any complaints about you.Got it”what a Golden words from my dh and these lines were also underlined with red ink by God. Before that my Father said Don’t bring any issues from your in-laws and you should never share your problems with the members of our family. I talked to myself Aha what a good people around me and I must Be more careful in my activities.

Then I turned on pages regarding Motherhood helping my children in their studies and was very busy till they got a good job and a good life Partners..After they settled in their life I was a little bit relaxed as they had their partners to take care of them .Now my two sons began to share their views.Amma you are an excellent wife,an excellent mother and now you must be an excellent MIL.Then I asked them what should I do to be a good MIL?Ma you have seen many ups and downs in your life but you faced them with courage and found good solutions.Like that even if your Dils say anything you just ignore their word as they are very much younger to you and have no experience to face problems.For our peace of mind don’t take it seriously and you be calm and cool .At a fracture of a minute I got angry and replied to them what do you think of me my boys?Do you want me to be a doll without any emotions?As a dil I had many compromises to lead a peaceful life and as a MIL again compromises.Oh no what a soul am I !compromises,Perseverance and Tolerance were in full swing in my life.i was sad and blamed God for blessing me with such a life.My son laughed and said Ma God knows to whom HE has to give these qualities and has selected you .you are in Good book of God.Be a role model of a good MIL.

I left these pages and blamed God for giving me problems and HE has not given anything to enjoy my life. Immediately “HE answerd you idiot you have enjoyed your life from the first day of your birth till you reached 17 years old.what a long time you had joyful moments in your life.Are you not satisfied with a long time happiness?you are a greedy girl and you need more joy .it is not fair on your part. you start from the first page and then you will realize how lucky you are.Have you ever missed good food, beautiful dress and a big house to live.you had all the pleasures in your life when compared to others.so try to be happy with what you have” Then I apologized to HIM for my immature questions.Thank you my lord giving me such a wonderful life

Friends Pardon me for a long post .just for fun i have written this.I am not aware whether you are going to throw stones or flowers

 

@iyerviji Good morning .Happy to read your first response and thank you for the fb.

 

@GeetaKashyap Geeta Thanks for your response.Ha Ha "To get our Royal rights ,sometimes we have to become bad girls"i like your version.By God's grace having good terms with DILS and my only prayer is this affectionate relationship must continue till my end.

 

@Mistt Thank you for your lovely response..what i have mentioned in my post suits our generation which is commonly seen in many families.Now time has changed and life style is different from ours.i never find fault with younger generation as they do dual roles.i have said to my children if you have problems you both sit and talk and solve it.Don't bring it to us as we are unaware what is going on between you both .you both are the Masters of your life.Totally i want peace in family

 

@jskls Lakshmi Thank you for your kind response.you know me well