Hi wonderful ladies out there...Pl bear with my long letter and I am really awaiting for ur replies dat wud heal the pain in my heart. I am married for 5 years with 4 yrs old daughter. I am working in a reputed IT company and my h is a businessman. The problem is with my h. I really dont know wat to do with this guy. He is such a drunkard. Not an occasional as u all think...he does it daily as he is a person from slum who drinks daily and beats his wife for money. we dont have any financial problems....happy with a cute kid..life is somewat smooth...but this guy finds a reason to drink. I am facing this problem for the past 5 years and he didnt reveal dat he is having this habit before marriage... his parents also know abt this and they are helpless and we are nt able to find a solution... he used to abuse me physically and verbally in fron of his parents..they support me but goes nothing before him....OMG wat bad words he uses.. i havent heard such bad words in my lifetime... all the weekends it happens..not only in weekends it continues....all the weekends goes like this..no outing nothing.....i am afraid of weekends..although having tough time in office in weekdays...many times i have told him dat we shall go to doctor.. he will tell yes and later he refuses to come and the story continues.... my life is such a hell...nowadays i prefer to be at office instead of goin home....i feel like murdering him by giving poison in milk before he goes to bed...such a mental torture from him.... I have told my parents abt this...they are telling dat they will come to my house ant talk to him and my in laws but i am very afraid that this might cause more agony to my husband and he may treat them badly as my parents are mentally very weak and my mother is a heart patient.. Pl help me ladies wat shall i do?? i am thihnking to go for divorce but when i think of my daughter's future i leave this matter...I am not at all happy with him...my future is a big ?