My Husband is a Spenthrift.My Inlaws are taking adavntage over my hard earned money

I dont know where to start and how to start .I have been married for 2 and half years and my life has been so miserable with my inlaws and my husband.My husband has got so much dowry from me and he used that amount to settle of his loans and debts which he got before marriage.He has pledged my jewels and settled of his father's debts.I am working women and he is taking all my salary and transfers into his account.My Dad is no more and my mother only educated us with the help of my father's pension which i sa negligible amount.I am the eldest and i have two sisters and one small brother.I would like to support my mom .When i asked my husband about helping my mom finacially he asks me to go back to my mom's house or otherwise hit me very badly.His father still has debts and he asks me to put loan for clearing his father's debts.My brother in law doesn't contribute anything.My husband only contributes everything to his parents.Our inlaws are enjoying my hard earned money .They dont bother about who earns and clears all their debts but still they want to enjoy as if they are newly married couples.Inspite of having all the debt's my husband has taken them to foreign trip since his mom wished to do so.He still has not repledged my jewels.The family still has debts.When i ask about the debts my husband simply says no debts at all.without my knowledge he is borrowing from his friends and for repaying he is asking money from me.If i dont give he behaves like a psyche.He is very selfish.He speaks only about money with me.They simply married me for settling debts and for no reason .Now i have got a child also.Bcoz of this i should stay calm .I dont know how to manage these people.They want to live luxuriously by givng trouble to us.My father in law had no self earned properties .He sold all his father's properties and gave education to his son.He dint earn a single penny on his own .He wants to spend lavishly.But there is no source of income .My husband has creidt cards and 90 percent of alll his slary goes to credit cards and loans. We are paying for FIL's medical bills which is also a big amount. Not only medical bills.If they got to home town my husband will sen deven with bathing soap,tea,Beetel,tooth pastes and ll essentilas so that they need not buy form shop.My FIL is also getting money through agriculture.But He simply pretends as if he has got no money in front of my husband.My husband is not worried about our childs future.He is simply worried about his father and mother.He will even build a temple in the name of my inlaws.50 percent of my salary goes to household expenses and 50 percent is for inlaws.they are puting burden on my husband and my husband in turn is putting burden on myself.He want s me to contribute not only to his parents but also his brother,cossiter, their children,sil,Their children,his aunt.Going by car is not affordable all the time but these people prefer to go by Rented Car simply for showing pride .The Empty Vessels are making much noise. My mother is also not able to ask them since she is worried about other two :bonkgirls(my sisters) life if i go back to my mom's place.My husband doesn't give respect to my words.He didnt even realize that he is doing no good for me and my child.He says that i am providing food,clothing and shelter.APart form that being a lady you should not ask anything about family's fiancial staus. I dont know how to change these greedy people

 

Re: My Husband is a Spenthrift.My Inlaws are taking adavntage over my hard earned mon

Thank you for your valuable suggestion.I hope that everything should change hereafter