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Mundane Life And It Bores Me.

Discussion in 'General Discussions' started by Anusha2917, Jun 14, 2019 at 9:41 AM.

  1. Anusha2917

    Anusha2917 Finest Post Winner

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    From past few days I'm experiencing this "oh my life is so boring" kind of feelings.
    Job : is okay, it's going on. Am I enjoying it -no I'm not . I feel I'm doing the same kind of engg work and it's hardly making me feel " oh I want go to work and I'm looking forward to it. " maybe I should work on upgrading my skill set . But somehow it bugs me to do anything.
    Married life : nothing to complain. It's all going great. Can't name any problem. Have a great relationship with husband and in laws.
    Health : No complaints.
    Exercises and hobbies : I do go for walks at least 5 days /per week. Indulge in hobbies like learning a musical instrument and dance class in the weekend. Discontinued my yoga. Not taking classes for the past 3 months. Sometimes I feel I'm doing too much just to keep myself occupied.
    Also I concentrate on my gardening in the weekends.
    Few good things : new home is getting ready , we are working on finalizing the interiors, my parents are close-by. I meet them and spend good time with them weekly 3 4 days, we are doing okay financially and the word struggle is not there .
    Vacation : from 3 years me and husband didn't take vacation alone. We went on a few with family. Like in laws, sisters in laws, sister etc.

    In spite of all the good things I feel very bored sometimes(like past 1 week this thought is haunting me) . Like no excitement. Feel like the daily routine is bugging me. Get up ,cook, run to office ,come back and retire on the bed.
    My daily entertainment like reading books/watching series happen while I'm travelling to work.

    Am I'm missing something ? I can't figure out. :sweatsmile: Any inputs for me here would help me.
     
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    I had just nominated @iverviji "My Life" post for Fine-Post -June2019. This is a good one too !

    I am having your kind of life, with a few of differences: No (need for a) Job, some Health issues (but easily managed), a few decades older, and living in phoren country.

    We take two serious vacations every year-- one in the middle of the year, and one between xmas and NY. We go to some resort, and chill out. I would recommend this to couples in the before&after years -- i.e., before children and after children had left home. Go on nice vacations frequently enough, and then reminisce about it in the gap-time in between.

    I also go on holidays with friends -- usually to spas, where they feed you well, and you can do totally unserious things. Sometimes I go for volunteer jobs. Road crossing guard was my most recent one -- bunch of us wearing high visibility vests will watch children at zebra crossings to make sure they are paying attention to the red-yellow-green lights and cross when they should. The kids would be going from school to day care between 3 PM to 6 PM. After 6 PM their working parents would come and pick them up.

    From south india, there are a lot of nice accessible vacation spots : Vietnam, Cambodia, Singapore (Bantan, Indonesia), Bali (Indonesia), Malaysia(Penang, and Cameron Highlands) are some of the peaceful and nice vacation spots. You'd get there without too much jet lag, have not-too different cuisine, and get to enjoy local spas and massages.
     
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    U surprise me girl :)

    Nutin to complain about. Everything in track. What is there to be bored about !

    Touchwood - good life, good everything :) :) :) A lot of women would do nytin to have all that...ur blessed girl :)

    Thank God and thank all ur stars to be leading such a blessed life.

    Sendung u much love
    Sandya
     
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    Yeah. this vacation is something I need to rejuvenate myself. When we just thought about Sri lanka the bomb thing happened there. But the places which you have mentioned is something I will look into. Interesting ones. Thanks.
    So the CSR activities conducted from office is something I should get involved with. Lot of things keep happening. I should explore and get involved in one of those activities. I am noting this down in my list . :grinning:
     
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    In tamil, they say 'kozhuppu-dhaan'. :)
    When we have real (moderate-to-large) problems, we won't have time to ponder such. Otherwise we have free time and free space to ponder something or other.
     
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    I am surprised too ! So my point of writing this Silly snippet is I can't figure out what exactly I need . !
     
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    Ha ha.. Aama. It may be kozhuppu :grimacing::grimacing:
     
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    See problems are there. But not something like my life is not moving forward because of those problems. Big small I won't quantify them. Somehow I have this tendency of "overlooking those problems" . I won't dwell on them.
    But at the same times all the positives in life are good , I am happy and thankful about them.
     
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    Nevertheless it was sweet :) people often write about issues but never about the good or happiness in their life. So ur snippet was definitely refreshing :)
     
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    Thanks . Now this really made me feel good . :)
     
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