Moving To New Apt Community (us) - Do's And Don'ts

It is maa Varini adigi cheptanu. And yes it’s a good idea..

Yes this is logical ..

That’s really bad! Some people are so mean

Actually I was thinking the same .
But I feel managing a kid is difficult than writing code!

Very true. And to be frank they have a luxury car too.. Wonder why they are not willing to spend on nanny etc

 

Yes I already told the same. And funny thing she called last week and asked wats the plan for long weekend. Later she told oh then in case of emergency I will leave my daughter in your house.
I don’t know how some people can be so irresponsible. I am sure to save money they wouldn’t have invited parents. But doesn’t mean they can trouble neighbours !

Yes right

 

Ok u have one demanding and adamant and I m going to be rude but she is shameless to ask..
U can be straight up say no since u still have none experience ..I know it’s not comfortable way to say but if she wants u just for her benefit n not as a friend I think it’s no use to help .
Do not tell her u have no plan u say u don’t know

 

I told the same. She is like you will get experience so you can do it .
I don’t know how easy it is to give a bath for tiny baby .

 

How can someone say that really this is too much ..I don’t know what to say now

 

Exactly my situation now. I dint know wat to comment when she told that.
She seems to be so clever in convincing others. I am planning to tell her to send her daughter to other friends house as they have a kid of same age.
But sometimes I’m feeling am I being too rude ? But I really have no idea of baby sitting

 

Yes u will sound rude but no other way ..
I would not mind to babysit if she was friendly from the beginning but since she just sweet for a reason that is making me say those ..

 

Yes after 8 months of stay she spoke to me. By that time she was conceived.
When we met face to face that time she smiled. Before that she dint even bother even after seeing from their balcony...
So I’m wondering if this is all due to this!
And she keeps calling me to her house.
Sometimes I used to be busy and used to not respond

 

Please do not entertain this lady’s requests. This is not normal at all. Tell her that you are taking some course work and will be busy. Be firm.

 

She already knows that I’m little busy with such things. Inspite of that she is asking. I think I should be little firm in telling .