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Mother in law not ready to accept her son is married!

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by Shrirupa, Dec 23, 2011.

  1. parvathi1980

    parvathi1980 Platinum IL'ite

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    This is strange...u in the same room with mil!!! Put a partition in your house so that you guys can have some privacy...I think your mil has some serious letting go issues else she would not have let her son take only a single room in the hotel. In my opinion you need to sit and have a serious chat with your husband.
     
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    poojachinoy Gold IL'ite

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    its absolutely not acceptable to be living like this..you need some reality check...it is your right to demand privacy in your relationship...are you serious,you and your mil sleeping together with husband !!!!...and you are more worried about accounts and the rest of the things under the sun..

    your first priority should be getting a seperate room..no matter what!!...go do some serious house hunting..even if you find a one bedroom apartment with hall attached just take it..you can take loan...and also apply for job...and try to stand on your own two feet...girl,sorry to say that,but you are being taken for a ride here!!...you are talking as if its common for husband and wife to sleep with mother..get up and smell the coffee...IT IS NOT!!...think and do something about it!!
     
  3. cutemonster

    cutemonster Platinum IL'ite

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    hey! what ever be the reason ur mil sleeping with u in the hotel room was very wrong ! i mean in house also its wrong only but still u can say that there is no option but when she could have given u a chance to spend some time together she did not ! this lady does have some issues in letting her son be close to his wife ! u have to do some serious house hunting!
     
  4. silvertulip

    silvertulip Platinum IL'ite

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    Talk to ur hubby and tell him that u want some time alone with him. Don't sound as if ur complaining (coz he might not like it), instead say that u feel neglected coz of his busy schedule and want some private time together...he might understand it..and try finding a job near his workplc so that u can meet him sometime over lunch or evenings and spend some quality time together at outings..
     

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