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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by harryboy1234, Dec 2, 2011.

  1. RJMK

    RJMK Silver IL'ite

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    So the deal is you want your wife's salary and give her a small amount for her.
    And then what..She looses her freedom and you get the extra income..Why ? And is this the reason you married her ?
    You have a working wife and this means she will not burden you with her demands.She is earning coz she wants that feel..She is helping her parents cause evry earning child will..You want her income..Open and RD account and put small amount in it...And stay out of her other monetory business..Also does she ever question you ?If not then why do you..Dont loose respect by acting like this...Respect her for what she is..not fpor how much she is earning nad even if she is hiding..Its because you demand...
     
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    I suggest please don't go over board and ruin your relationship, giving her a meager amount of pocket money from her earning's doesn't seem to be a good idea..give her the liberty to spend her own hard earned money.
    you have no other job except to count her money??? in spite of taking her major contribution of her salary you are trying to calculate every little expenditure incurred by her.. that is really very very mean of you..you are a big MCP...
    She has no trust in you that is the reason she is hiding her bonus and other increment lest you will start counting even that money.
    First treat her as a human and behave like a good husband... and not just a money making machine.
     
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