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Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by Sangeeta85, Feb 28, 2017.

  1. Sangeeta85

    Sangeeta85 Gold IL'ite

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    Just now I came down after shower it was 2 it happened late bcz was with my son taking his studies .. we eat at1.30 ..she immediately started saying look at the time it's 2 You went by 12.15 n coming down now...I said went to take shower so n was taking son's studies so she then told no eat before 2 it's good for health..eating late is not good..
    I don't know how to react to this..
    how will u react to this..
     
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    Hi all your doing is reporting all day every day what your MIL is doing/saying to you, you are not helping your situation as you are focussing in on everything she does or says. You need to ignore her and stand up to her. Nothing is going to change until you do these things, the more you focus in on it and talk about it the more you can't get away. We have all told you to stand up for yourself and you are not willing to do that, then you need to just continue with her treatment and accept it as you are making no attempts to change anything.
     
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    Sangeeta85 Gold IL'ite

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    She will just twist my words n what she has said she will change n start .. u tell me what I had to say her wen she says me that..
     
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    Hi
    Geeta says
    Learn to cook tasty food and feed your husband varieties of food.then he will be at your feet and listen to you.
     
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    Oh sudha says
     
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    OK.what I would do is
    I will eat before 2 till she is here.
     
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    Ok sunshine I will do that then..
    Thanks..
     
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    Btw.Are you talking to your parents now
     
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    I spoke to them but in my bedroom with door closed..
     
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    I dont think, this is such a big question to feel bad .
    In this case , if i feel that she is telling out of concern i ll say 'ya ya i too wanted to eat early ' and ll eat earlier .
    If i says that in yelling tone , then i ll say ' i cant eat when i am not hungry ' and ll start doing my works
     

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