i need advice from ur experience, we are married for 4 years still having problems with in laws. my husband doesn't talk to my family which is in india and i'm forced to talk to my inlaws as they live here.although we don't talk that often but sometimes we do. my husband talks to them everyday. when his family comes over they all talk to each other except talking to me. now they invited me to their house for some pooja . i don't wanna go at all as i feel insulted as no one talks to me there but i don't wanna upset my husband by telling him that.please help me! basically, i'm being selfish i don't want my husband to go either as i know they will say bad stuff abt me. what should i do.