To preface my situation, I have always been an NRI, and have lived my entire life in the US. My husband grew up in Chennai but has lived in the US since he came for his masters 8 years ago. We met through our family, and essentially had a hastly arranged marriage due to his family's conservative beliefs. My marriage is generally on the rocks, with a couple days of sunshine, but I've accepted that. What bothers me is that my husband wants to move to India and wants me to be supportive. Considering my upbringing, I never thought to move to India despite having family there. Is it fair for him to move us to India? Am I being selfish to prefer a life in US- where I grew up, where my friends are, where my parents are, and where I had held a job? On the same end, his parents are in India, and he is happier (and easier to deal with) when he's in India... It feels like I'm choosing my happiness over his. Any thoughts?