Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by iyerviji, Mar 20, 2019.
Yes dear I agree with your thoughts.
I agree with you dear. You are blessed to have a husband like that. Glad your marriage life is loving and peaceful
Thanks for your feedback
Your post shows wisdom. Any thoughts on the thread "
How To Surmount This Problem?"
Thanks dear. I have to think and post because it is a delicate issue and I am from the olden days. Once I had written something with my experience but it became a big issue.
My mil was very fond of her son since he was born after five daughters . Though I am from the olden days compared to my husband's family I was modern. I had problems adjusting in the beginning but slowly got adjusted .My mil lived only for two years after our marriage. I was not so courageous in saying anything . Though there were problems his family was loving and caring. Any function everyone used to work together . I was not good incooking so used to be nervous.But somehow I was able to earn a good name from my eldest brother in law. Me and my husband also have differences but his love,care and helping nature made me forget . No we have understood each other and leading happy life.
Adi is having a tough time and it will take time . Lot of patience is required but how long. Her Mil should understand . In present days many mils are adjusting. Now couples want to stay separate after marriage.
Every here have given good suggestions
This may be more than MIL because Aditi writes “His mother and I can't get out of that grip anytime in this life”.