I'm reading this site regularly to try to see if anyone has my similar situation and absorb the guidance from respected fellow ilites. But today i wanted very badly suggestions for me so coming to my problem. I'm married for 7 years now. Very dominating and cunning MIL. No support of husband as he is a big mamma boy. If his mother says sun rises inwest so is his statement and will accuse whomever says sun rises in east. This is him. Have other issues but i want to focus on my first major pb. MY MIL. My FIL is a very sweet person who passed away after 2 years of my married life. One instance to say about my MIL's nature. My FIL had a very advanced stage of cancer and even that time when he was undertaking radiotherapy treatment. Even at that time when my FIL pleads for a easy digestible food, my MIL will not make and give. Her reply would be you are depending on me now. So just agree to whatever i say. This is my MIL. But even for this act of her, all her children would invariably support her. :drowning My MIL was here with us abroad for almost 9 months and ever since she left all my husband does is to find fault with me and criticize me. I work full time, take care of my little baby at nights and after i return from work, do the household chores but still he criticizes me and my family :rant. I have to leave to India shortly and will be forced to stay at my in-laws place and i am really scared to face her and my SILs with my unsupportive husband. I am just venting out my thoughts. My parents know about his family well now since they got a chance of staying with us when my MIL was here for about 2months. Prior to their stay i didnt tell them anything about my husband nor in-laws. They are already heartbroken that they havent selected a good family for me. I dont want to hurt my family more since my husband's behavior is very disturbing for me now. Really feeling very scared and confused. I would like to have your suggestions on my issue of this. One thing my family doesnt know is that my husband speaking ill of my parents.