Managing Family With Maid Along With School Goer Children

ranju5 · Jan 17, 2018

dhivyacc said: ↑

Hi Everyone...

Am back with some queries related to maintaining maids.

My elder one is doing 4th std and younger is in UKG.

We live as a nuclear family both working in IT. To help us we get some live-in maids from our hometown.with the help of parents

Some persons suits and some dint.

This time got a muslim lady and she will be joining this week.

Earlier we managed in such a way that half of cooking will be done by maid as my elder one needs to leave 7AM from home.

lots of ups and downs and mismatches...but we need some person at home to pick them up and in case of holidays...
my only concern is to pick the children up from school bus in the afternoon /evening. and they need some accompany @home after 4.
along with that household cleaning works etc can be done i believe. this is how we managed ...

the previous maid left because her parents are not well. so to take care she left.
So temporarily i put them in day care elder one will finish the school and come to day care . Younger one also studying ukg in that playschool only so he ll continue there too up to 7. the households we are managing everything but it is literally tough only. few days my elder one came home @4 pm alone and slept...

Now some how my parents got her and she said ok to come to chennai please give some thoughts on managing them.

My spouse and parents are telling me that get most of the work done by them. I try the same with everyone, but at some point, some of the problem comes...such that they dont speak, they update the things to spouse and not to me...
Treat both the children in different way, like taking care of one who obeys them and leaving other one alone. like that....

I dont want such things to happen with this person also..
if there any threads just point me there
Click to expand...

Getting a good home help is difficult so if you can you should work part time or from home and just have the cleaning lady and the cooking can be done by yourself

dhivyacc · Jan 19, 2018

things are going smooth till date... some work she is contributing.
still trying to adjust.
I started taking load on all household works, and based on the need am telling...

gradually trying to and adjust to the mentality of maids....
hoping for smoothness and success

Log in or Sign up

Managing Family With Maid Along With School Goer Children

ranju5 Silver IL'ite

dhivyacc Silver IL'ite

Share This Page