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Making love during Pregnancy

Discussion in 'Intimacy' started by mspurohit, Mar 31, 2008.

  1. SLV

    SLV Gold IL'ite

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    The replies are quite educating to me.
    Thanks, will remember the information shared here.
     
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    comedy New IL'ite

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    Hey girls

    We are not having sex since i got pregnant. I'm 6 months pregnant now. Sometimes I desire for sex and since i'm at my mom's place i cannot talk to anyone about this.

    I have been watching some videos in youtube....is it ok?? will it affect the baby?? coz i see that baby movements are strong wen i watch those videos.

    Pllllllzzzzzzzzz guide me.
     
  3. Savithri

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    No replies for this yet?!
    Y havent u had sex after getting preg!? Sex is always safe even during pregnancy.
    And do not worry about what ur baby will think, eventually it will all zero up for the child. As long as the mom is happy , the baby in womb is satisfied.! AND there is no porno in youtube i suppose, they might be soft **** vids, so not to worry!

    Hope i helped?!

     
  4. Rakhii

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    Looks like a bad news for me and more so for my hubby. My doctor advised me for NO sex at all during the entire term! As much as I trust her judgment, I found it really odd that she said NO for entire 9 months :drowning. My DH seemed to have taken pretty well and assured me that we should do what doc says (even I agree to this).
    And after delivery I am guessing it will take another 3 months before sex...

    mein to kuvaanri ban jaaoongi tab tak :drowning!!!
     
  5. chitrajaraika

    chitrajaraika Platinum IL'ite

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    Mostly after 7th month of pregnancy you can have sex which helps in normal delivery.

    You can have upto 7th-9th month.you have to consult with doctor and have to do anything
     
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    rakhii,

    Although my doctor did not say anything about it,We have avoided it from the day 1 of my pregnancy.I cant imagine it anymore with my growing belly and body aches.But I heard that its good during the advances stages of pregnancy,say after 8 or 9 months.

    P.S: My gynaec is a male and Iam feeling shy to ask him :hide:
     
  7. Rakhii

    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    Thats what I also thought Chitra. I asked her second time also if its unsafe even after 12 weeks. She was saying, "I usually advise my patients not to have sex. I know several cases which didnt go well because people dont know what is gentle and what is a rough sex. They think its gentle (to their standards) but in fact its not for the baby. My suggestion is not to have. If you still want to go ahead with it, its up to you two"....and then I shut my mouth because I dont want to argue with my doctor.
     
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    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    CM...now only my DH is scared even to touch my stomach, let alone make...bla. So, in 9th month, I am 100% sure he would run away if I initiate it :biglaugh
     
  9. lotusgirl

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    wow 9 mths plus the 3 more!! i hope you both get to survive the period with ease somehow :D..
    thats really strange the doc advises point blank to all patients to abstain.. i have heard of only such advises where there is a health issue to the mum & pregnancy...

    But on the other hand even with the non restriction DH gets a bit worrried at times :D

    Chotumeetu, i think there is no reason to be shy to ask the question.. if you have no restrictions in doing general physical stuff you do during pregnancy why would sex be a taboo?? pregnancy is not a disease, but a phase of life..

    as for sex during end of pregancy, though its one of the most uncomfortable time to actually be in the mood, its supposed to be one of the sure shot ways of getting the labour started..
     
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    Ranchu Local Champion Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    hahaha the way you've quoted here .. Thats really funny .. Of course you dont want to argue with your doctor.

    Probably to satisfy your needs you can just do the foreplay and avoid the penetration. Try it out.
     

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