Low sperm count and motility

Discussion in 'Fertility & Trying to Conceive' started by kenny, Jun 22, 2011.

  1. Swatir23

    Swatir23 Gold IL'ite

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    Hi carol,
    I have seen you as a strong god beleiver in different thread.....i also beleive god but as you say he will take care of us always...then i keep on thinking lot of bad things happen with people around us then why dont god help them sometime to us also ..how long we will say he will given us something good....i recently saw news in newpaper gal is murdered after rape...she also would have also remmebered god at her last time...why didnt he do anhything for her....so sometime i keep on thinking....till what time we will console ourself saying evything happens for good.
    sorry if i am hurting u by saying this.but this is my frustratation you can say......
     
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    Hi Swati,

    Firstly, I am not offended or hurt by your questions because it is a perfectly valid one that many have asked me and I have asked myself too!

    I understand your frustration because I am experiencing it in many ways. To be honest, I don't have a pat answer to why bad things happen to good people (and why good things happen to bad people!). But, I trust God...I KNOW He is good and that He loves me and you. The only difference between me and most people who ask this question is that i KNOW Christ...I don't believe in any religion, superstition, or man-made ideas about God...I simply have a strong relationship with Christ and the same is available to every one who is willing to open their hearts to God as a person.

    Most people think of God as 'someone up there' who pulls strings and does whatever He wants to do! They come up with all kinds of rituals and traditions to appease Him, get into His good books, and avoid His wrath. That's not true. He is a PERSON, and He cares just the way we care for our loved ones. Let me ask you this: Do you believe your Dad will every hurt or harm you in anyway? How can you be sure that he loves you? Because you have a personal relationship with him...you have seen him care for you and you know for sure that he wants only the best for you...it's the same with God! When you known Him as a person, you won't doubt His intentions or wonder why He does certain things...it boils down to how much you have opened yourself to Him and trust Him :)

    I hope my personal experience will help you a little bit in your journey. Trust God no matter what happens around you. He will never leave you or forsake you.

    God bless,
    Carol
     
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  3. Swatir23

    Swatir23 Gold IL'ite

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    Thanks carol,For your lovely explanation....yah i also trust god but sometime some things are unanswered...to us.
    humm......bteween i lost my fatther 10 years back when i was doing my college...and it changed my life as i was eldest in the family i had to take many responsibilities at very small age....and the struglle is still going on........
    i was so close to him ...and today after 10 years also i cry for him i get his dreams.....humm....and waiting to bring him back in the form of my LO....
     
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    Swati, I am very sorry for your loss and I apologize if I have brought up a difficult memory by mentioning your Dad. I cannot imagine your pain as I am very attached to my daddy and can't think of a life without him. Remember, God is your Father and He is watching over you 24/7. I hope and pray God fills this vacuum in your life through a son. Stay strong!

    Carol
     
  5. Swatir23

    Swatir23 Gold IL'ite

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    Thanks a lot carol,
    I need lot of good wishes.....thanks again.
     
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    ahmed36 New IL'ite

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    can speman really help in incresing sperm count?

    can u tell me a good doctor to see in hyderabad?

    plz reply me soon
     
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    ahmed36 New IL'ite

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    can any tablet help increasing sperm count?

    ca u tell me a doc in hyderabad?

    My masturbation time has graduly decreased due to over ejaculation.can u tell me how to cure it?

    help me buddy.

    plz
     
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    Hi Ladies,

    Even my DH has a lesser sperm count but we got rid of it bcoz my doctor after looking at his semen report asked to get a quick sugar test report of my husband as the glucose levels will have a higher impact on mortality and her guess was right his sugar level is too high ranging 300 post lunch and above 180 for fating test.

    As the diabetics is tracked and treatment is started for him gradually the mortality and sperm count are showing some improvement.

    So that i suggest all those who have not got their sugar test done plz get it done quickly which will help you a lot.

    Wish you all the best.......
     
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    Sir,

    Can u give me the address of the doctors residing in Hyderbad, for the tretment of increasing the sperm count, please let me know.....

    Please contact me through private messages. You can sign up for
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    please help me


     
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  10. samyarora

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    first of all.. its good that you know where is the problem.

    now, coming back to your concern... SA cant always be accurate...the results will vary from lab to lab and time to time.. and one more thing all you need is one good swimmer... my dh has 90 mil with 85%motility.. but does that make him a super man... well for me yes.. but for the rest of the world no.. all you need is one good swimmer... and it can be easily achived...

    low or no count could be mainly becuase excessive smoking, alcohol, some kind of known or unidentified prolonged illness or low testestrone..

    there are suppliments available which can help him to increase the counts..

    in our case, my dh is always desp about doing it everyday.. he has a very high libido..

    now, what is it that he does different... nothing.. yes.. he doesnt smoke, take any kind of acohol or any form of drugs... he hasnt tasted tea of coffee either... yes he is fond of non vegetarian food... which i think is good for us.. he is little fat.. i call him motu dear..lol..

    he like eating brocolli with dressings in salad... he drinks fruit juices with amla and beetroot atleast thrice in a week...

    i m now 16 weeks.. and it was hard to keep him away..so i moved to my moms..

    anyways, if he is eating raw vegs, fruit juices, non veg (fish), and also the intake of beet root, apples, watermelon (with seeds), celery, brocolli, avacodo, should set him up...

    Celeary and watermelon are like natural viagras...

    start cooking food only in desi ghee...keep him happy...dont let him wear V shape undies.. get him loose boxers..

    regards...
     

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