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Loveless, sexless marriages and EMA

Discussion in 'Intimacy' started by MaritalBliss, Feb 5, 2013.

  1. MaritalBliss

    MaritalBliss Platinum IL'ite

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    Is it justified for people who are in loveless, sexless marriages to have EMA.. Let's say they have to remain married for some reason, be it kids or finance...is it then ok for them to look for love and sex outside the marriage?
     
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    sweetshreya IL Hall of Fame

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    nandita24 Gold IL'ite

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    I feel once married the partner's consent or concurrence for such an arrangement may be the right thing to do. Else one is free to do as one pleases.

    It would be ideal if there were to be a matriarchal society in vogue. This will ensure that the women and children are taken care of by their own families even as everyone benefits a no-strings attached relationship with one's lovers till they last.

    Nandita


    Refer : The Land Where Women Rule!!
    Also: Walking Marriages - Mosuo
     
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    Endlesshope Platinum IL'ite

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    Okie would love to see if somebody is going to say yes and get bashed by the entire team ~muhahaha~
     
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    MaritalBliss Platinum IL'ite

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    Evil laughter!!! Haha..
     
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    cutemonster Platinum IL'ite

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    Nothing in this world can justify a EMA!
     
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    MaritalBliss Platinum IL'ite

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    I have this fren...she had an arranged marriage..3 kids. 2 of the kids are with their dad in India..1 with her. Her DH did not get PR here and he is also not interested to work here. They are separated for long periods of time. From what she has said, there is no love in her marriage. I have strong reasons to believe that she is having ema..Somehow I felt that ema is bound to happen in her situation..though it's not justified... She says she does not love her DH and they hardly communicate...
     
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    Yes, if the spouse feels ok with her/his DH/DW doing so!
     
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    that would be open relationship, no??

     
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    EMA is a big NO...:rant
     
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