lost my baby

Hugs to you dear,very sorry to hear about your loss dear, don't worry, just take rest, I think you need that the most right now.

Maybe it was just not meant to be this time, but you will very soon be blessed with a beautiful baby.

It looks like your hubby is very cold, you should talk it out with him, that you want him to support you in life, especially regarding your health.

About your in ln laws telling everyone, just don't care about it, show it has made no difference to you, that they talked about your personal life in public, when they realise it makes no difference to you, they will stop doing so.

 

I am sorry to hear this. God is reserving space for some other little angel in you, may be the one who was in your womb wants to go to another mother. So no worries at all.

Please talk to your husband and keep away from all this. You may tell your doctor to tell him not to put you in such trauma. He would for sure listen to a doctor. You can take rest. Have some distraction. Keep yourself. Tel your doctor to convey him "keeping yourself happy is the best way to have a child". I am sure your baby is waiting for you Loads of good luck May GOD bless you with one soon, you are in my prayers

 

thats sad...hugs to you. Dont worry your lil one is gonna come back to you , soon. God bless.

 

It's not your shame it's theirs...If I were you I would told infront of same guests how they were so insensitive to my needs.

Either get out of such situations or fight the hell. It's your loss no one else's...you can give birth to many babies, and your sil can have grand pampering but why at your child's life cost ...more importantly at your cost.

 

Have you thought about whether this is a healthy environment/family/marriage into which to bring a baby? Do you feel, that in your current state (no support, and emotional abuse and disrespect from husband and his family), that you will be a fit mother to a child?

Even if you have little care or consideration for your own health or happiness, please think about the health and happiness of the child you are so desperate to have. Children are not meant to be a means to solve our own problems or improve our lives. In fact, we are here to make sure their every need (psychological, emotional, and physical) is met.

Many wives/mothers in your situation here on IL report that their children are not treated any better than they are, by their husbands/in-laws. Be careful of automatically assuming that once you are pregnant or a mother, their behavior toward you will change. As your own tragic experience has shown, they seem to have little regard for you even when you are pregnant.

Even if you can't change their behaviour soon or easily, you do have enough control over your own body and life (I hope) to make sure that you do not have a child until things improve for you. Be a wise advocate for your unborn child - do not be in a rush to get pregnant again.

 

Hugs dear..I can understand the pain..of both losing the baby and the humiliation.Be strong. Like Ansuya said - think twice before bringing a baby into the equation. Atleast talk to your husband about the hurt you had to face - because all this bottled up inside is not good for your health too..My prayers for you..

 

I am very sorry for your loss and your dh was very insensitive telling about this thing like that.

Miscarriage happens mainly because the foetus is having severe defects and this is natures way to take care that the pregnancy is not completed as the child would not survive. It is estimated that one fifth of pregnancies end in miscarriage. Many times the woman does not even know because it happens so early in the pregnancy. There is probably nothing you or someone else could have done to prevent this.