A potent,sexually normal man will not stay away from intimacy because wife does not talk much or is not social.This is victim blaming. Do people even understand what asexuality means or may be what happens when gays gets into heterosexual marriages. When saying ,'divorce is not a solution for everything' ,do people even realise what a sexless ,childless marriage with no emotional and physical closeness means ? People with normal married lives cannot walk in their shoes. A sex less un consummated marriage is not even a marriage legally .