There are so many plus points in America.It has thought me so much of good and bad,thought me independence,I realized how true my"relatives" were,land of opportunities etc.. If i go back to India,I know i have to live with myinlaws,i may not be working,less independence etc BUT..I miss the essence of india. I can never ever become americanized. I just cannot blend in .it's like oil and water cannot mix. i feel iam like that in America.Lately,i have enormous stress.. am i the only one feeling this way?