Life Has Become Very Heavy

Hi,
I am person who is suffering inside and not able to share with any one niether find solution , Just suffering from inside , dont know where it will end . The thing which I cannot share to anyone about my Husband and his family is they are into hex and vadoo, and They want me to give money for them. My husband never bothers about getting things to me or home for which i only have to spend, after which he asks how much money you have kept , what are doing with your salary.I am frustated very badly and dont want to talk him as he continuosly harrassed me for around 6 months shouting for simple reasons. Now he is quiet ,He is even restricting me on buying and wearing clothes i like , never gets one for me. I have a kid of 1.9 year.

 

Thank You Sir, Will do so

 

Thank you for advice DDream , It is giving me ideas on how to behave. I was suffering inside mentally about this and never revealed it to him. Still i was trying to be calm thinking that its my bad time. I turned on my watsapp and fb yesterday after a period of 4 months , for which he created issue again ,and asked about salary. But he will be in Phone almost all the time . he is asking for passcode of my mobile , only thing i am scared to give is - if he tries to send any message from my mobile and put me under trouble. Because i had taken some snap shots of he chatting with a lady .
Sday i said him that "i am thinking very badly about this and not sleeping properly from a week , you think only your money is money and you are human. I cant be like i am in jail , You are asking wat happened with money , I have spent for home needs , sent 11000 to you"
Not able to judge what his plans are - he doesnot want me to talk to anyone - collegues at office , neighbours and even family members. (My brother n sister).

 

,Even I am not getting an idea why he is doing this. And my life is restricted is office and home , and We both are working in same office - he will get to know all sort of things , but I never get any info - coz am not interested and bothered to know . I am like just do my work kind.he works for shift 5.30 am to 2.30 pm one week and 2.30 pm to 11.00 pm one week. Myne is 9 am - 5.30 pm everyday. this is has become my life.
I saw his chats during my pregnacy in 2015 - around 5 months, which says -
Her: Naughty ,
Him : " I am your naughty (Poli) " Only Your Naughty" -when i asked about it he said , he doesnot know who is it and he has not chat and never accepted. ( but i found that she was his classmate living in native who has a family with girl child - around 12 years)
PLEASE NOTE : He recreated the same message and sent to some number saving under some name and said that it was his friend living in abroad.
he was caught when i saw the time sent , in my snap shot it was 10.pm , in his it was 5.00 pm. he tries to manipulate things and doesnot accept . and more importantly he has good speaking skills in which he tries to prove am wrong . he will prove 1 +2 = 4.
Later he added a friend in fb , i asked who was it , he said i dont know ,by mistake i accepted - but that lady was a person who started using my number after me stopped using it.
He has messaged her thinking its me and got friends.

So after this i stopped checking as it was only hurting me. and he will b the way as he wants.

 

Hi Sandycandy , My carrier is not going good , so i wanted to change company , My brother referred me to a very good company - PWC , but he dint allow me to attend interview also , he kept on calling and abusing me. i went crying and dint clear too.
Seriously he is playing mind game and I am loosing my inner strength, I cry while i drive to office everyday . I am really stuck on what to do.
I am spending more for home than him , still he wants my salary.