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Left Flabbergasted....

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by shama146, Sep 21, 2019.

  1. SGBV

    SGBV Finest Post Winner

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    If she is financially independent. If she has a social circle of her own (friends, colleagues to go to, share with etc) and if she has a FOO to back at any given time.
    A woman can come out of such tragedy and demand for justice if she has the above support system. But what is important is her mind set, to accept and move on independently whatever comes her way.
    To which, girls need to be raised equally at home with an opportunity to think, make decisions, fail and raise from her failures.
     
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    rgz Gold IL'ite

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    Not sure I understand the above...Do you mean your H beats the kids? If so, ask him to stop it once for all, or tell him you will report him to police.
     
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    SGBV Finest Post Winner

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    Dad beats kids or mom. Either way, dont waste your time here with him. See the possibilities to leave and find a roof for you and the kids for the future.
     
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    dhivyacc Silver IL'ite

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    Yes you are right..
    But if we 3 say, no one will believe. that's a different story.He is such a nice and gentle human outside.
    Definitely a way should be there , waiting for that moment.
     
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    Why are you waiting for other's approval for your own troubles?
    If you are feeling miserable and if your own kids are suffering, then isn't that enough for you to accept the fact, that your marriage is failing?
     
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    I don’t have the details but studies show that kids who are part of domestic violence families will end up either as aggressors or suffer the abuse as they saw that is the norm.

    Women needs to gather courage and get out for children sake...


    And the women in this case has not handed over the evidence to police earlier in APr even after police asking her for any proofs ....she was holding out for reconciliation , even now she may go back I guess if husband agrees ... all in the name of small children who will be adversely affected if the violence continues
     
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    No ... she may not have enough confidence to stay without a husband even after a professional degree and a masters....

    The courts have already acted in her favor earlier itself by handing over children to her .... and she will most probably get child support too .....
     
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    Yes
    This is serious
     
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    rachaputi Platinum IL'ite

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    Damnn! Where are we living? Your life need not to look perfect for society, they won't help you anyway.. I will not ask to leave him but you people just have meeting or take him counseling.. If a kid is in this environment, your boy may take 'its ok to be superior on wife and your girl may loose her strength'.

    Seriously unmarried couple needed a counseling before they tie knot. Emotional abuse is more worse than physical. Of course itis applicable to wife and husband both.
     
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