hi all ! this thread is for all those who married in family which spoke a language different than their native language . like say Punjabi and Bengali or Tamil and Gujarati or any such marriage ! i would like to know how u managed with ur in laws ? what language do u speak at home , ur husband's native language or some neutral language like English and Hindi ? what did ur kids learn ? just their father's language or even his mother's native language ? what all efforts did u make and difficulties u faced ? would love to hear from u all !