Very interesting to know! Let's say I feel a strong attraction towards a girl and she feels the same way about me. Even in that case it might be a dud? On the other hand I might not feel any spark towards a girl and yet things might work out? Is that what you are saying YM? If that is the case then I have to rethink my approach. The girls I was talking to previously wanted to know every single aspect about me. They were really interested. But I was not that keen on them. This girl seems very circumspect. She is not very eager to share about herself. I asked her why she wasn't talking that much with me. She told me that I was also not talking that much with her (which is true). I have no idea if she is thinking this way. I feel she is more eager for a commitment than opening up to get to know me.